Merry Christmas!

Another week has flown by and here we are, the birth of our Savior. Last night we attended mass and it was beautiful. The church was as full as I've ever seen it. We sat surrounded by our favorite people. If only my family members had been with us, it would have been perfect. Yesterday we got our projects done for our trip. N took us out to lunch. We don't go out to eat very often. I realized this when we were leaving and Eight asked "We just leave the dishes there?" Normally, they are begging to go in. We will hit the drive thru while on the road. If we do go in, its to a place where you clean up yourself. Baby Girl was in her first high chair at a restaurant this past week. N took me out for breakfast. We are nearly packed. 2 pm is the earliest we can get out the door. I still need to pack N, myself, bathroom and hotel bag. My pile to load is growing. Santa came to our house during mass last night. What a surprise that was! All were pleased, but they did wonder if he delivered anything for them at Grandma's, too. We now have a wii in our house. Not sure still how I feel about it, but I am open minded. To demonstrate, Seven was completely frustrated with his poor bowling skills. I am not sure I want to listen to more complaints. I think Five was pleased the most with her gift. She got a mp3 player and a boom box for her girl room. A handy and very cute bag came with to store the player in. Baby Girl got the biggest gift of all, a walker. She also got a learn and play puppy. It was a great night. We had a spaghetti dinner, quick and easy after a late service. Everyone was pleased and happy. Great memories and great family time together. One of my favorite parts was seeing what gifts the kids created for us.

So sorry dear readers

Guilt has me! I apologize for not blogging more, especially after compliments in Christmas cards. Not sure why I haven't kept up with it. There were moments when I could have gotten an entry in, but didn't have the right motivation. This past week has been crazy with tasks to accomplish. It seemed there wasn't a free moment in the day. I'd find myself multitasking every minute. The only time I sat down was to nurse Baby Girl, even then I was doing something else. I love all the cards and pictures we've received. So sorry to my over seas friends, your cards are still sitting here. That trip to the post office just gets me in the end. I never can get there ahead of schedule. What a day Thursday was! Five and Seven had parties at their school. Still locking all doors and signing in and out, etc. made for a congested office. No biggie, all things that should have been done before to keep things in order. Seven was thrilled with his party. He had a great turn out. He really does have a nice class. Lots of parents and wonderful activities. Five too had a great party. Baby Girl and I roamed between the rooms helping when we could. She loved it. The more chaos the better. She did manage to fall asleep for a short time. Just enough of a rest to keep her going for the remainder of the party. N was off buying a new washing machine. Yup. The 10 year old Maytag was done. We'd put money into it already. The belt and I'm not sure what else. We knew this day would come, just didn't expect it during the holiday. By the time I was finished at the school, he was looking at machines at the store. He called and we made a choice. He came home with it before the bus arrived. Then the challenge began. Feed 4 kids, dress one for a concert in complete chaos. Every surface of my kitchen was full. No spare space! The new washer in the kitchen, along with the dryer. Baking goods everywhere. Hungry kids and no plan. We made it. The house was still a disaster, but we were on time. We got good seats and it was great. Well, she's awake and time is up. I will try to get on here more, but tomorrow will be busy, too.

Sadness in our nation

Unbelievable comes to mind after today's news in Connecticut. After hearing this news, I wanted to go get my kids and keep them home for good. With that not possible, I wonder what changes will we be in for learning from this tragedy? Will our school change it's policies? Pretty much anyone can get into the school through the front door at any time. There are doors to force you to go through the office, but there is no guarantee they would stop there, especially if they had a weapon. Our best weapon is to educate and pray. What a heartbreaking experience. My prayers tonight will be for those families. Unbelievable.

My list is nearly complete!

Today was productive! Yeah for getting things crossed off my list. I finished some kid gifts and Godparents. I still have a few things to figure out with the Godparent gifts, but otherwise I am done! So excited, yet I have so much to do. We figured out containers for Christmas cookies. Now to get baking! Tomorrow is gingerbread house day in kindergarten. Five is so excited. I'll join her in the morning. Kids want to go to open gym at the gymnastics place tomorrow night. They will be tired after. Saturday we'll stay home and bake. Sunday is big with mass, pizza party, caroling and cookies. Monday we're having a wrapping party. Gotta dig out my tape, scissors and ribbon. New Moon and Azalea are coming to wrap gifts. Not sure, Daisy may join us. Next week we will deliver our treats. Tuesday is cheese ball day. We're giving the teachers cheese balls. Hope they like them, its a popular recipe that always goes over well. Should be a great next week!

Seven

This is the letter Seven wrote to a nursing home resident. I was near tears. Dear Dick I am Seven. I am a 2nd grader from the learning center. My family Christmas tradition is going to my grandmas. What is your favorite holiday? Mine is Easter because Jesus rose from the died. And get baskets of goods. Also you find your basket. One time I got Legos for Easter. What is your favorite day of the week. Mine is Monday. Sincerely Seven Sometimes they get it so right!

Who is in charge?

The kids like when I joke about who is in charge, mom or baby? There is much truth to my silliness on this subject. She tells me when she wants something. Gets me to carry her from place to place. She's the new boss in town and I her employer. We tried sleep training again. My fault it didn't work out the first time. We had success, but I let her completely fall asleep when putting her to bed. She forgot all about falling asleep on her own. We did it again last night. I think it will work out this time. She's older, more aware. She's learning new things every day. We've been working on some signs. She's starting to do all done when finished in her high chair. It's great to see she gets it. During last nights training, she cried for 30 minutes. Normal for the first night, we've done it before. Tonight will be less as will each day to follow. By the end of the week, we will be where we need to be and good to go. I just have to make sure she isn't so tired at bedtime. Our day is beginning at 5 am. Not my plan, but I owe it to her after last night. I hate how long it's been since I've written anything on here. I hope to try to get more entries in. We've started the holiday baking. Today we hit the grocery store as it's been awhile since we've been there. This week I will bake one recipe at a time and get that project done. I've still got Godparent gifts in the works to finish along with two projects for Baby Orchid we were working on and stopped. Our Christmas shopping is nearly complete. I need to finish gifts for my Godchildren and we need to order something for my brother. I think that is all once I get my gifts in order. I need to bring two baby gifts to MN, too. One for a baby boy that may come around my birthday! The other for a Christmas baby yet to be determined boy or girl. I will be ready for either. So excited. These are new parents, friends of the family, Orchid's age. Our Christmas letter is written, envelopes addressed. We will make copies of our letter today and get them in the mail. I had the cards the beginning of the month, but a picture was crooked on the card. I waited a few weeks trying to decide what to do. I finally wrote to Walmarts website and they gave me my money back. Well, I'm still sending out the card, even with the crooked picture. I couldn't waste all those cards because of one picture. It will work. She's making her way over to the couch. This girl can pull herself up and take a few steps along the couch. She's all over the place, even more than she was before. She thinks she can scale walls and climb into the standing position along anything tall. She was holding on to a chair under a desk and then fell forward, completely under the desk. Got herself a big bruise on her head. She has another spot on the other side of her head from a different injury. If she keeps this up, she'll be black and blue for the holidays. She is adorable and always in good spirits. The last week she's been slightly different. Not sure if its teeth or something in her ears. She's been tugging on her ear sometimes. I gave her motrin under the guidance of Zinnia. I hope it helps her to feel more comfortable. Now she is operating Netflix. She loves remote controls. The big kids are all doing well. We attended a gift making session at the Methodist church on Sunday afternoon. I thought it would just be ornaments and cookie decorating, but this was so much more. The kids made actual gifts for people. They put together things to go with coffee cups, etc. They were like gift baskets with different objects. It was great. They loved it and felt so proud of their creations. They wrapped everything and put it under our tree. The also attended the Frosty Shoppe at school last week. There, they made purchases for family members. It's always fun to see what they picked out for people on their list. Seven picked something out for a certain canine we will see during the holidays. Everyone was thrilled with him making that purchase. It's all coming together, just to get it all done. What a wonderful holiday this will be with a baby in the house.

One rough week

This was a challenging week in our household. With Seven having a stomach bug on Saturday, foolish me thought since everyone was fine on Sunday, perhaps we'd be home free. No such luck. Five woke up at 6 am, which she never does, and was sick. Off the boys went to school and I cleaned everything again while taking care of Five. Just before 1:30, I get a phone call from the school. Eight got sick in the classroom. Happy to report he made it to a trash can. Good thing I thought to bring a bucket because he was still sick in the car. We created a spot for Five on the floor since she was feeling better, Eight got the couch. Baby Girl seemed to have a touch of it later on. She was spitting up after eating and didn't want any food. Enough said on that subject, everyone was better by Tuesday and back to school. Once again, foolish me thought we were in the clear. Wednesday night N and I got it. Yuck. I felt better after getting the kids to school on Thursday, but poor N didn't feel better until the middle of Friday. It was rough. Friday brought sadness to N's family and friends. A 37 year old friend passed away suddenly. They still do not know why he died. His family won't have answers for 6-8 weeks. The family was close to N's family growing up. They had 4 boys and later adopted a girl. The second to the oldest boy passed away. He was a year older than N. I remember when 37 seemed old, not so much anymore. His mother was amazing with the entire situation. She talked about how she knew she was going to have hard days, but her son lived his life to the fullest, he was not in despair. Many people spoke kind words about him. He was the guy who, no matter how much money he had, he'd help make sure your electricity stayed on and you had food to eat. A neighbor told a funny story about how they were going to leave vegetables from the garden at the parents house, but didn't want anyone to know. They were nearly caught by the son hauling dishes out of the mothers house. What was he doing? He'd brought his dishes over to load in the dishwasher, wash, and take home. It lightened the mood. After we went to a lunch at the pastors church hall. Miss D came over after school to get the kids off the bus. She came on the morning to get them on the bus so we could leave early. She kept Five and Eight for the evening. Seven was invited by Daisy and son to go swimming. They also attended open gym at the gymnastics facility and he was tired when he arrived home. Baby Girl is up. Guess I have to hope to finish my week another day. I'll just add that today no one wanted to go to church. For some reason, I started singing a new song from church. Everyone's mood changed and we made it on time. It was great for our night. Tomorrow: we begin holiday baking! Five can't wait. Baby Girl is pulling herself up along the couch now. She's wanting to stand all the time. Time is really up now.

It's a beautiful day

We are in for a beautiful Sunday. It feels like a spring morning outside, already at 7 am. Yesterday was pretty low key as Seven was sick. He felt better by the end of the day and we should be ready to go. Everyone slept all night, I pray no one else gets sick. Even though he was sick, we still had some pretty good conversations. We are preparing for his first reconciliation. Five was all about answering and could make the sacrament, too. They get it and that makes me proud. With a sick kid camped out in the living room, the last thing I wanted to do was decorate for Christmas. After a phone call with Orchid, Five really wanted to decorate. I agreed, but the tree would have to wait. By the time we were done, Seven was on the mend and off the couch. I am thankful we did decorate, it set a nice tone for the end of the day. I moved their desks together next to the bulletin board. I really like how they are arranged. It is not what the new owners wanted, but gives us more space. I agreed to their arrangement for the start, but adding a tree to the room will cause even more spacial issues. I feel as if we are busting at the seams in this house. I hope we can move up sooner than later, but I am not anxious until we can afford the one we want. There are two currently listed that I would take and could move right in to, no compromises. Until we can get one of those, I will be patient and wait. One step at a time. We refinanced our house and that is near the end process. It's all heading in the right direction. Still trying to iron out our holiday plans. Turns out we will only have one day with Orchid and her family. We're considering driving back that direction to avoid a hotel fee. We'll see. It's still in the works. I can't believe how busy this week will be. Today we have a reconciliation meeting after mass. Tomorrow is RE and Eight has the Frosty Shoppe at school. Tuesday is a book giveaway for Seven. Wednesday N works over time. Thursday and Friday are Frosty Shoppe for Five and Seven. The Frosty Shoppe is a store they set up at school for the kids to buy Christmas presents for family and friends. At first, it irritated me. Just another thing to shell out money for. After attending and helping, I totally see why they have this program. The kids are so excited and it is really a nice process. I will divide our people between the three kids. They can choose a gift for the person on their list. It's fun to see what they think the people on their list will like. I will help with Seven and Five, but not Eight. Thursday is first reconciliation. It will be a nice night for our family as N will be able to attend with us. Last year it was on a Sunday and I did it all by myself. It will be a nice experience for Seven and Eight. I admit, I feel I've failed in taking Eight and hope to change that for all three of us. The neighbors who have the bus stop at their house moved this weekend. The new bus stop will be our house in the am. After school, the kids will still get off up the road. I think it will be a nice change,they won't have to be waiting outside in the winter. The kids next door were thrilled with this news. I've finished the dresser project I've been working on in the garage. I decided I want to put new hardware on it. Hope to pick that up either today or tomorrow. N got supplies to make bunk beds for the girl room. Nice changes to come to that space. Five is excited. Times up. She's at my feet.

Christened the Crockpot

N brought home a new crockpot last week. The last ones handle broke off the lid. I was using a pliers to take the cover off and on. Not the most convenient way to cook. I washed it up and made chicken for tacos in it this am. Baby Girl woke up around 5:15 and heard N. Today is his early shift. Just the sound of him was enough to get her up and curious as to where he was and what he was doing. Wasn't planning on starting my day that early, but oh well. We're working on shoe tying with Seven. Yes, seven seems too old to not know how to tie his shoes. My bad I guess. I've had so many battles with him about other things, I waited until we had to learn to get the job done. He's blown me away with things he's shared lately. For Thanksgiving they made paper plate pies. A tack in the middle held the top and let you spin the pie slice. Underneath, it was divided into fours and he wrote four things he was thankful for. He wrote family, God, Jesesu, and Life. Wow. We'll have to work on how to spell Jesus. But wow. He's come a long way. It's great to see we're doing something right. I love that boy. Parent teacher conferences were right before the holiday. Did I mention them yet? I don't think so, but can't remember. Both boys are doing really well. Five had her conferences a few weeks ago. She too has improved. I wasn't really aware of how many tears she shed the first few weeks. She's come a long way. Sometimes she tells me things that I don't completely get until later. One day, a girl in her class drew marker on her shirt. She was also pinching Five on a regular basis. I informed the teacher of the pinching right away, but didn't think too much of the marker. Most of the time, Five likes to carefully chose her outfit for school. It didn't occur to me weeks later, she would chose what to wear to art based on if Elizabeth would possibly draw on her again. Seven has improved in school. He is one point off with his reading. He did very well with counting money. He is well liked in class. The teacher taught Eight last year. She's happy to have another boy of ours and likes to see how different they are. I really like her and am so thankful both boys were able to be in her class. Eight makes good choices. His teacher said he too is a good boy and nice to have in class. She shared with us that if someone he is next to isn't doing quite the right thing, he will move or give himself space away from that person. He's doing some 4th grade level work. He did very well on his concepts and was ahead of others in his class. So proud of him! Baby Girl is sleeping better. I say this, and I'm probably doomed for a bad night. We had one not too long ago, she was wide awake at 2 am. It had something to do with a wet diaper and long fingernails. She's decided to pinch anything her little hands can grab and boy does it hurt. She's all over the house, exploring every corner. I am constantly cleaning the floor. Yesterday, I didn't think the floor was that dirty. It wasn't until I put her fleece pants on to discover just how dirty the floor was. She was like a swiffer, covered in lint and crumbs. Our Thanksgiving was nice. We went to church in the am and that set the tone for the day. Did I already write about this? I sent some emails and no I'm not sure if I'm repeating myself or not. I think I need more sleep, or at least to look back and see what I've written. Sorry readers. Today I get to go to a movie with a friend during the day without any kids. Miss D from next door is coming over to spend the afternoon with Baby Girl. I know they will have fun. I've been frustrated with my picture orders from the store this week. I thought I was on top of things, getting my Christmas cards ordered now instead of later. Nope. They cut off half of Five's face. The prints I ordered were quite crooked as well. What was supposed to be simplified by having shipped home turned out to mean a trip to the store anyway. That's on the schedule for Thursday with N. That's all for now. More to come I am certain.

To humble me

Tonight I had a humbling experience, one that put things back into perspective financially. I think it changed both N and I. We have no business fixing up old boats and wanting $600 camera, etc. I have to realize (and thought I had) that we can't keep up with those around us. I needed a reality check, back to thanksgiving for things we do have and not for the things we want. Now, honestly, I never thought I'd get a $600 camera. It was just something I realized I would like and it compared to the cost of fixing up an old boat or two. I even found a swinging deal on a Kitchen Aide mixer and thought maybe that was a realistic thing to want for the holidays, but not acting on it right away would change the price, therefore not making it the swinging deal it used to be. I've really tried hard to watch what I buy and how I spend money. Perhaps my trip to Ikea got me too wrapped up in getting new things. I had saved some money my dad gave me last month for the desks for the kids. I don't feel guilty for the other things I spent. Overall, the trip cost me less than $200. That was the first time I went on a trip like that. My point, no more extras. I will stick to my Christmas list and that is all. The groceries always throw me off, I will get creative with what I have. Why does life have to create these challenges? To humble me. Norah Jones has a song with that phrase. It was singing in my head tonight and still is. Not sure when I will stop hearing it, but hopefully not anytime soon.

The thankful week

This week was a week of thanksgiving. The kids had a short school week, only two days. Tuesday night I contracted a horrible migraine. Record breaking pain that I haven't experienced in quite some time. It left me ill and the pain meds did no good. I was even sick to my stomach this time, a new level of symptoms. It lasted all day Wednesday. With thanksgiving the next day, there were quite a few things I needed to prepare. I am not sure how I got them done, but I did. It was in between naps and taking care of kids I was able to accomplish all my tasks. With doubts in my mind about how I'd feel the next day, I was very thankful to wake up with little pain on thanksgiving morning. We made it to church by 9 am, first goal of the day met. With lots of teamwork, we were out the door slightly later than planned, but still close to schedule. Our arrival at the cousins was great. They were happy to see us. It has been awhile since we'd been there, July to be exact. The kids love going there. They run and have so much fun. After being blessed with nice warm temps, they were outside almost the entire day. Great food and good company completed our thankful day. This morning, everyone slept in. After getting a few chores done around the house, we are off to be outside and try to finish some projects while Baby Girl is napping. Hope everyone had a wonderful day. The week continues....

So much to discuss

There are many topics I've wanted to write about, but just have not had the chance. One is Christmas. I am saddened to report we will not be in MN for Christmas this year. We are not able to leave here until Christmas day. A mix up with the leave schedule and we are stuck here. The kids are sad, but we will make the most of it. My problem now is when does Santa come to our house? Would it be terrible for us to write to him and see if he can come here first? We are the toward the beginning of the alphabet. If he waits until the next am, N will be at work and the kids will have to either A. open their gifts without him or B. he may get a break to run home and watch, but he goes to work at 5:30 am. We can't open them then. C. We write to Santa and maybe he will come when we are at church on Christmas eve. Is that breaking too many rules? It's the direction I am headed. N will be home and we can all got to church together, hopefully. I have no clue what time mass is at our church on Christmas eve. I've never been. I'd love opinions on my dilemma. Please comment and share. Today they were not the best behaved during church. They were fine to the average spectator, but my standards they did not meet. Five was into my bag, fishing for whatever she could find to please herself. After telling her to stop at least 3 times, I was fed up. She kept treating the pew like it was a trapeze bar and wouldn't sit still. While I am thankful they love their little sister, constantly trying to kiss Baby Girl and hang on me too drives me insane. Seven is too old to not pay attention and sit up properly. Eight is in the same situation, but rarely doesn't listen. Today they were fooling around and chatting way too much. It was so discouraging to leave feeling frustrated. I wasn't too frustrated, but I did not take them to the pancake breakfast the Knights were putting on. That was the plan and it always makes lunch easy for me, but I just couldn't do it. I was so tired trying to balance it all during the service, I couldn't police them at a breakfast too. We did not go. They were greatly disappointed. We continue to work on our church behavior. I've almost completed half of my Christmas shopping! I still need my father, brother, and to finish the Godparent gifts. Depending on our Santa situation, I may need to pick up a few things for that as well. Yesterday we completed the Ikea desks for each kid. The desks were supposed to be an early Christmas gift for each kid. I painted a chair for Five. I will do the same for the boys, but I do not have "boy" colors. I hope it makes the homework process easier. Time will tell. They are all facing the dry erase board in the other half of the living room. They take up quite a bit of space. Baby Girl is less than thrilled with the road blocks. We'll see how it works.

Please ignore the fact that Five is in her pj's at 2 o'clock in the afternoon. She chose to put them on after taking off her church clothes.

Fridays fun

The day began slightly stressed. Trying to get everyone out the door, including myself, proved to be close to chaos. It went as well as can be, I was on my way shortly by 9. Today was Ikea day! Yes, two friends and I had a great day at Ikea. After a nice lunch at Chili's, we were able to wander around Ikea and find the treasures we wanted to bring home. Baby Girl did a great job, she was perfect company for our journey. My whole trip was based on getting new desks for the kids. They are cheap, but will work. $20 each, couldn't have done it for less than that. We have chairs, I will paint each child a chair. They've been waiting for awhile on these desks and were thrilled I was going to get them today. I found some other great things to bring to our house. Two new rugs, but I'm not crazy about the runner for the front door. Might try to find something else. I love the rug, but its tan. Everything in our house is tan and white. We can't paint the walls. Tan doesn't do much for our entry. An 8 pack of colorful hangers caught my eye. They are bigger than kid hangers, but smaller than regular hangers. I found a three pack of wooden cars/trucks for Cousin #9. He will be two in a few days. We also got him a Tigers t-shirt. We've got a new project going on for Christmas gifts. I picked up a few things to work on it. They are turning out better than I thought. Um...we stopped at Michaels after and I found some pretty purple flowers to make hair clips with. I also got some canvas prints for Christmas gifts. As a treat, I bought a new picture frame to put the kids Christmas pictures in. N wasn't feeling well tonight and stayed home from work. The kids were to be picked up from school by Zinnia and brought to her house until I got home. Instead, she brought them straight to our house. I guess this upset her group quite a bit. Not sure how mine felt at the time, but I hope they rolled with the change. Everyone was in a great mood when I got home, just before 6 pm. It turned out to be a great night. N was home. He put together one desk. Everyone was pleased.

5 AM

Wide awake at 5 AM and starving, if you've ever been a nursing mother, you know what I am talking about. It's difficult to have so many things to juggle in the middle of the night. Screaming baby, sleep deprivation and than the horrible hunger pain that becomes so strong it can make you nausea. While I had these experiences more in the beginning, today I find myself back there again, starving at 5 AM. She's been sleeping much better lately, thank the Lord! Last night was close to chaos at our house. They came home, all high spirited and happy. This continued, even though they were hungry. We've made our meal right away two days in a row to accommodate our schedule and hunger. I really wanted to take some Christmas pictures of them to get a project complete for the grandparents. After a trip to the craft store, I came home with some pretty flowers for hair accessories. They ate while I glued. I showered Five and Baby Girl, then dried and fixed Five's hair. Boys showered and were shiny and clean. Once we got started, it all backfired. No one would cooperate. Baby Girl was screaming, hungry and tired. I didn't even get her dressed. Silliness set in and I was irritated. I gave up. Sent the boys upstairs and eventually took a few of Five. She's had dry lips and has been licking her mouth too much. She's got a line of red under her bottom lip. That was no good. In the end, it just didn't work. I will try again tonight, but at a different location. My neighbors have a beautiful fireplace in their basement. After school, we will head over there. Normally, I wouldn't be in such a hurry to get this done, but alas, a coupon deadline has me motivated.

The truth, the whole truth

Today, my kids were being difficult. I have a hard time with silliness when it is not appropriate. The silliness led to more and irritated me further. During their snack, they were still silly. Once a bowl of cereal with milk was on the floor, I was done. To their rooms they went, lights out by 7:30. I couldn't help it. Before the bedtime, we had a good conversation. I told them today I heard two families in the school district will be evicted from their homes. After explaining what this meant, I also told them the principal discussed how they can tell when some kids come to school, they haven't eaten since the day before. I brought up how hungry the kids were today when they came home, how would they feel if their wasn't any food to eat until school tomorrow. I think it really made them think. They asked question and were satisfied with the answers. It put things back into perspective. They realize how fortunate we are. We talked about helping people more. A friend is going to get food ready for the two families. I hope we can help some how, too.

An entire week has gone by

Can't believe I haven't been on here since last week. Where to start? Not too much to tell. Just an average week at home. We read love letters to Seven at church this past weekend. They were homework for his reconciliation class. They were powerful to write and moving to read. N wrote his and I took it to the meeting after mass. Seven wrote sweet things in his. It was a great activity. Too many things to get done as Baby Girl sleeps, I can't concentrate to write it all down. I've been too tired at night to write. I need to get on the elipitcal right now while she is down or it won't happen. I've gotten off to a good start, have to keep going. We enjoyed a nice Veterans day dinner with our favorite vet. When I asked the kids if they wanted to go, that Dad got a free meal, they said no. After I told them they would get a meal too, they decided to go. Silly kids. Would we really go and sit to watch N eat his free meal? It was a nice treat. One we do not do very often, everyone was happy.

Tuesday's just fine

After two days of migraine, we are back on track. Poor Eight wasn't feeling well this morning. Head cold. Poor Baby Girl has her first runny nose. I feel so guilty she got sick. Praying that is all it is. She was slightly more fussy than normal, it made getting things done more of a challenge. I manged to get quite a bit accomplished even with a fussy girl in tow. I was able to sort and recycle papers, etc. Both bathrooms are done and I managed to finish the laundry from the weekend. It looks pretty good around here. It has to since we can't have anything on the floor anymore. She's like a magnet to trouble. She finds everything! The solution, a clean house I guess. She's much faster than she was last week. She's enjoying her jumperoo more too. Best time of the day is when the people come home. To her disappointment, they all fled to play and left her with N and I. She loves to see them and waits for their arrival. I am off to Zinnia's to make cards tonight. Long time coming. Looking forward to it. Hope some people want to receive cards for Christmas and baby gifts. Give me a shout out if you are interested!

Sunday togetherness

Today I have had a horrible headache again. Even with the pain, we managed to have a good day. We had a wonderful time at church with Seven's first reconciliation session. It was much better than last year. It inspired Seven too. He wanted to do his homework and one session as soon as we got home. The kids were thrilled to see N home early. My head really hurt and he made it all better. The kids are now outside having fun in the nice weather. Baby Girl is having a hard time running into things in the living room. She's bumped her head and scratched her face yesterday and today. I am not sure how to change it, she is running into her own toys, etc. They are baby safe items. Just part of her learning how to balance her head and body movements. Looking forward to a nice family night.

Thankfulness Day 2

Today I am thankful for my husband. He provides for us in many ways. We are getting used to spending more quality time together while the troops are in school. It's been great. Today was a good day. Guess I'm too tired to recap it all. Maybe more tomorrow. No plans tomorrow and very excited. Kids just want to play at home. Should be a nice day.

Thankfulness

Today is day 1 of thankfulness. I want to try to be thankful to write something I am thankful for every day. We had a great night at church, all saints day. Last year, the kids dressed up as saints. This year, we did the same. We were the only kids dressed up. Seven was St. Fransis of Assissi. Five was St. Elizabeth of Hungry. It was great. They had fun. I love what they are learning in our church community. Oh my time is up. Baby Girl is ready for cereal.

An early start this Tuesday

After cleaning most of the house and getting all the laundry done, Monday was quite productive. I even managed to purchase a big Christmas gift. Great to have some things out of the way. I hope to get more accomplished today, too. I was up very early thanks to Baby Girl and the impending storm. All the chaos on the East coast left me wondering how we would fair without power for multiple days. I experienced this once as a teen. We were stranded in our house for 3 days. Since my parents house has a heated basement floor, we were able to stay warm for all 3 days down there. We had some extra people with us. I really do not remember what we did to pass the time. We listened to the radio for updates. Turned out the only radio we could get batteries for was a small radio that belonged to my brother. It was the shape of a $1 bill. George Washington's mouth would move to the sounds of the radio. Quite comical at the time. We do have a decent supply of canned food, but not water or beverages. Perhaps today I will work on getting supplies in order. Better to be prepared. I do remember N's family being without power for 3 days in the past. It's no fun. I worry about the kids and the temperature. If it gets really cold, we do not have a fire place or heated floor to warm them up, only each other. I guess at that point we would have to leave our home. I feel for those on the East coast today. For now, things continue on in MI. Today is Toucan (2 can) Tuesday and red shirt day. I will get my kids out the door, finish yesterdays laundry. I have one load left to wash and dry, baskets to put away. We hope to get more Christmas purchases done today, too. Let's hear it for a productive Tuesday to follow a successful Monday!

Saturday Start

You'd think I'd have this figured out by now, the difference between baseball cleats and soccer cleats. I do, honest. I didn't even look at the bottoms of the girls size 1 cleats I bought at Goodwill this past week. Got home and they are baseball, not soccer. Since the entire store was supposed to be 50% off today, we decided to return them today. Boy, was that place crazy. I had no idea what an event this was. It only happens once a year and people were lined up at 7 am. Target salvage was plentiful and I guess people got as much as they could, according to the rumors in the line. We came home with some new clothing pieces and yes, another spinning disco light. I couldn't say no to her, she was the only one that listened this morning. She spotted it up high on a shelf. While I was searching for I-pad covers, she said "Mom, look, up high!" and there it was, the same kind of lamp as hers, but Lava style! It was the highest price yet, even with the 50% off sale. The boys were not into our treasure hunting and went across the street to the mall. We picked them up when we were done. Our journey then took us to the opening day of the new airport terminal. Free hot dogs, drinks, chips, brownies and cookies! What a beautiful terminal it is. Baby Girl had to be the first baby changed in the family bathroom. There were no other babies there. The kids got airplanes. We saw two ladies from church and our neighbors. On our way out, a woman stopped us and wanted to ask us some questions. She was from the local newspaper. She took down our names and asked what brought us out today. N said he worked in the tower. She took pictures of the kids and we were on our merry way. It was a nice family Saturday morning. The rest of the day, we were home. It was a very low key kind of day. They watched a movie, took our time making meals, etc. I did get some laundry done, but that is about it. I finally made my phone call to Daffodil. It's been too long. I should have called her days ago. It was great to catch up. Hopefully we will be in MN the same time this year. The Christmas plans are right around the corner. Can't help but think of all there is to do before. I need to get organized and moving. I've started some shopping. I have lots of ideas, now to execute these ideas. It was Zinnia's birthday today. We saw her out and about this am. She looked great. She was so chipper and happy. I was happy for her. I hope she had a wonderful day. Tomorrow is the mother daughter brunch at our church. I probably would have skipped it, but Five really wanted to go. I had no where to send the boys, but luckily, New Moon said she would take them. She's going to pick them up after mass. They are very excited. It should be a great day. The boat repairs are finished. N is going to pick it up tomorrow after work. We'll see how it runs, etc. Took us long enough to get to this part. I'm still unsure of our plans with it. Time will tell. Hats off to a great weekend!

The Clam Chowder Attempt

After taking me out to lunch (rare moment), we were motivated to make clam chowder. N had ordered it and it was quite good. We found a recipe and collected all the ingredients. We weren't sure how it would go over, we just called it chowder. Everyone approved until Seven got a clam. He freaked and yelled: "the chicken is bad! the chicken is bad!" Needless to say, no one ate the chowder after that.

From start to finish

Today was a busy day. From the moment I got up, to the time I put them to bed, it was busy. Bake sale Friday! First of the year. We made ghosts and bags of bones. Seven was oh so proud. The entire day was a balancing act. Eight rode the bus to school. I took the other two to the bake sale. Seven nearly had a melt down about his shoes, we manged to avoid it and were still on time. Our neighbor Miss J came with to help as I heard from no parent volunteers to come help. Turns our there were a few and it was fine. It was crazy hair day for Seven. New Moon to the rescue with green hair paint! HE was thrilled and she totally made his day. N kept Baby Girl at home for awhile in the am. He brought her up to the bake sale where I wrapped her up in a sling and she napped. After the sale, I dropped off items at various locations and headed home. N had chili waiting. Before I knew it, it was off to the next thing. I went to Daisy's to help her clean her house. N kept Baby Girl at home, brought her after 1.5 hrs and took her home asleep. Plans changed a few times and when I was done, he was off to work. Miss J watched her while I ran to pick up the big kids. Daisy's JB came over after school, thus the reason for me to pick them up. I never do that anymore. The bus beats us home. They changed our route and it is much faster. I can't even get them into the car and out of the parking lot that fast. Kids were so happy when they came home. Baby Girl was happy to see them. I cheated and picked up pizza. Daisy came to fetch her son. He's such a good boy and good friend to Seven. Shortly after, Zinnia arrived with her crew for a movie night. Tomorrow is her birthday. In honor of her celebration, I made her pumpkin bars with cream cheese frosting. I did this last year too. Sort of has become a tradition. She was thrilled and went home smiling. What would I do without her. The end of my night consisted of getting them all in bed and draining the battery on my phone talking to my Mum. What better way to end the evening, besides recapping it all on a blog.

16 lbs 26 inches

She's a growing girl! We had her 6 month well child visit today and it went great. So proud of our peanut. We won't be back there until January, hopefully. I'm working on a new menu project. I found the idea online. Everyone was on board. It's amazing what will come of handing your kids cook books and telling them to write down page numbers for ideas. The board will consist of 7 clothes pins for each day of the week. 35-40 recipes to chose from. I am going to try letting each child choose a night's meal. These are only one meal per day. We'll wing it with the others. I hope this helps with shopping and planning. I was told I haven't been very good at meal planning lately. This is my attempt to change that.

She did it again!

Even though she woke up at 1 am, I am still so very happy with our sleep training results. No more crying at bedtime. No more awake every 2-4 hours. I hope I am not going overboard too quickly, but I think we're on the right track. The last two nights the only thing I changed was to give her a small, lite blanket. I think it soothed her through the night. We got her pictures taken today, something I've been meaning to do for her entire life. It feels great to get things in order. Tomorrow she has a well child visit and we'll see how much she has grown. I took out the next size clothing and have put away most of the smaller stuff. She's still as sweet as can be.

She did it once, will she do it again?

Finally, progress on the sleep front. She did it last night. I put her to bed before 9 pm. She fussed at 11:30. I gave her a dream feeding. I've done this in the past, but it just seemed to keep her on a feeding every two hours schedule. Not last night! That was it until 5:45. I was so proud of her. It would have been great if it weren't for the two older kids waking me up in the night. Seriously, they do not get up at night. Seven came to my bed right in the middle of the night. He'd fallen off his bed. He has a loft, but has been sleeping on the bottom bunk. It took me awhile to get him back to his bed. Closer to morning, Five was roaming. N had turned her night lights off and she was scared. I scared her downstairs to find N. He's been displaced for some time due to Baby Girl and her sleep habits. Today, we did many, many loads of laundry. I pulled out all the 6-9 month clothing. Baby Girl has an appointment tomorrow to get her picture taken. Finally, I am taking her in. I should have before 6 months but oh well. We are going now and that is what counts. Still unsure of what she will wear, too. How indecisive I've become with some things. RE tonight went well. Daisy was at another meeting. I had the class to myself. N brought Baby Girl in before class was done. Boy, did the kids love her. A classmate of Seven's gave us two garbage bags of clothing for Five. Such beautiful things. Even a white fur coat to match the one we just sent Baby Orchid. Five was asleep when I went through them. She will be so pleased in the morning. There is even a beautiful dress that will work for Christmas. To bed I go. N disappeared outside somewhere. More to come in the next few days. Bake sale on Friday! We're making ghosts and bones. Yes, we like to dip around here.

Togetherness

Feeling like you are a part of something can make a world of difference in one's life. Today we had a pig roast at church. Someone stayed up all night roasting a pig for us to enjoy. It was a great feast of friends and fellowship. The weather is beautiful. We came home and opened all the windows. The kids were outside right away. They want to make a band today. Beatles inspired I believe. Today Fr. B talked about servants. We had a youth mass and he pointed out servants to all the children. People in their lives, someone they could connect with. Then he had the kids all go and give a servant a hug. I was so proud of Five to go hug her RE teacher. Zinnia's MIL came and gave me a hug, thanking me for supplying her with good books to read. When I went up for communion, Fr. B said to me "and here is a true servant." Perhaps I should have felt proud at that moment for him paying me that compliment of servant, but all I felt was a wave of guilt. Guilt for not having more patience this morning before we left the house. It wasn't too bad, but still I could have been in a better mood with them before leaving. The ride there we were all on the same page with our attitudes. It's just getting everyone ready that really wears on me. During my shower all I could think of was how far behind I felt this morning. We were actually early, we weren't as behind as I thought. Still, the struggle for patience is something I think will always follow me around. This month I hope to work on that. I also hope to attend reconciliation before Seven makes this sacrament. Inspiration from Daisy. Time's up. She needs a diaper change. I've got the Beatles playing out our window. The kids are in the back yard with their band. I hope it continues to be a great day.

Political interests

I am so ready for election day. It has surprised me to see how many people really are interested in posting political opinions. It is too much and I'd rather take a break from FB than continue to see everyone's opinions over and over. You've said it once, do you really need to continue? I'm not sure which one gets me the most. They are all annoying. I must admit, I was quite surprised to see all the gay marriage hype. I am sure I have a different opinion than others. It caught me off guard to see how many people I know were really quite passionate about it. Not what I was expecting. It's all overrated. I am thankful the politics will end the beginning of November and we won't have to listen to it all for another month. It's right around the corner.

Signs of fall

After our return trip from MN, fall seemed to be in full swing. We enjoyed the beautiful colors of the UP. I heard my friends preparing for Halloween and hadn't given it any thought up until last night. I finally pulled out the costumes and everyone chose what they wanted to be. Today there is a special Halloween event at a new branch bank in town. The kids want to go. We have plans to head to Lilac's this morning. It starts at 9 am, we are going to try to go before we leave. My goal was to be on the road by 10. We'll see if we can do it all. I have all my things packed and waiting by the door to deliver to Lilac. Hopefully everyone wakes up with a good attitude. Baby Girl slept from 8:30-1 am then until 6 am. I'll take what I can get for now. Seven is in here playing with Baby Girl. He just shared with me that she has "moves" now. She can switch a toy from one hand to the other, thus "moves." Should be a great day. Hope it doesn't rain too much. Lilac has acres of trails the kids are big enough to run on. They love going there. It is a shame we don't more often.

Something is working

Sleep training can take a toll on any parent. It's going pretty well so far. Unfortunately, it's left me off my game. This morning, I failed to have an alarm on. I got up with Baby Girl at 3:30 am, put her down and then got up again at 5:55 am. Got her back to sleep and was out. Next thing I know, Seven is lightly tapping me saying "Mom, it's 8:03." YIKES! The bus comes at 8:25. I flew down the stairs only to be oh so very pleased. There they were, the three; dressed and packing their lunches. I was so proud of them. They were nearly ready themselves. We made some quick breakfast and two made it on the bus on time. N said he would take them right from the start, but Eight wanted to ride the bus as did Five. Seven was slightly behind with his shoes and N gave him a ride. Guess we are doing something right. I was really surprised at how far they were ready to go. They are big kids. Baby Girl is doing really well with sleep training. The first night was the worst, but she was text book 30 minutes, not a minute longer. Last night, no crying at all to start. About 10 minutes later she cried for maybe 10 minutes. Then 10 minutes after that I heard a few squeaks, but that was it. I still fed her at 3:30 am, but put her back in her bed awake. She only cried for maybe 1 minute and was out. I will be so happy to have this figured out. It just makes life easier all around. The hard part is staying with the routine, being consistent with bedtime. I won't give her a bath every night, that will be the only part different. It worked for the other kids, it will work for her too. We had an extra washing machine in the garage and it left our house today. A new guy at N's work took it. It's just him. I hope it works out for him. We bought it at a garage sale as a back up to ours. N fixed ours and we didn't need it. We never used it. Now I am trying to part with other things. Sunflower's boys can use some of the items, but she isn't interested in more stuff at her house. Lilac on the other hand, has been watching Sunflower's boys and has nothing at her house for them. I have some sweatshirts that don't fit Seven anymore. I also have Thomas beach towels and Deigo blankets. She's interested in toys too. I will head down to the basement tonight to see what we can find. I know there is plenty down there to discover. It will be our evening project. I got the entire house clean today and am halfway through the laundry. Kids rooms weren't too bad, just needed beds made. My room seems to always get attention last and was yet again, a disaster. I cleaned the bathrooms, washed the kitchen floor and vacuumed. The basement job will give me an organized house, hopefully for more than a day.

In the midst

So much chaos at our house tonight. Wouldn't you know, a night where N and I are content, we try to have an easy night. No commitments, no where to be but home. Guess the lack of routine was a mistake for Seven. I always push to have the homework done right when they get home. I didn't and it blew up in my face. He has a hard time dealing with the pressure of homework. I am at a loss of what to do. My next option I believe will to try to get him into OT. It's been advice I have received and hope to work out. After tonight, I know we have to try something. What we are doing is clearly not working. I tried taking away privileges for bad behavior. This works very well with Eight and Five. Eight will lose Legos. Five will lose her dresses or Barbies. Seven on the other hand, it is much harder. Tonight he lost all his favorite t shirts and he is not allowed to play on the swing set tomorrow. We will see where that takes us.

Migraine still with me

Day 3, when will it go away??? I wanted to sit in a dark room to myself. The life of a mother, this is not possible. After getting the older three out the door, Baby Girl and I took our time getting ready for the day. We headed over to Zinnia's to get some projects done. Zinnia and I can't seem to roll the way we used to, but we're knocking them off the list, one thing at a time. I'm getting closer to being prepared for Halloween. I have the 2nd grade bake sale coming up, too. We picked out what to make and just need the items. Seven was happy with his choice. Orchid gave us Halloween ziploc bags just in time. Still do not have costumes chosen, but we will get there. I hope to pick up the treats for the kids to pass out soon. We made tags for them to put on the treats and give their friends. Tonight is still the night for Baby Girl. She is going to learn how to fall asleep on her own. She'll be fine. She's such a sweetie.

Today is the day, I mean it this time

Baby Girl's sleep training begins tonight. I know I've said it before, but I will follow through tonight. This is it. I've had a terrible migraine since Sunday. Still with me. It lessened quite a bit last night and I actually felt better once the kids were in bed. Five was up in the night as was Baby Girl and now it's back. Nothing I can do about it, but try get her to sleep better. I think that is my first step to relief. I'm not sure what Five's problem was last night, she just wanted me. I hear boys moving about. We bought our neighbors swing set this weekend. They are moving sometime soon I assume. This is the neighbor who doesn't speak to us anymore. Me I should say. Still baffles my what happened there. It will remain a mystery. She just quit communication one day. All I know is they are moving to the other side of town and I wish them all the best. The kids asked if their house will still be the bus stop, but I am sure that will change. The kids next to them get off after school, but do not get on in the morning. Five was the one concerned with this. She's going to try hot lunch this week for the first time. I know she is nervous. She was getting advice from Seven. He told her you have to be first in line coming in from recess to get to the front of the lunch line. On another note, Seven and Eight were playing chess yesterday morning. Seven just casually says "what the hell?" to a move Eight made. Now, I've heard this before. I don't like when they say "What the" the options for fill in the blank after are too many. The thing is, when he said it, it was like an old man or something. I've heard him say what we call naughty words when he didn't know I was listening, but they are words like stupid and fart. Stupid is probably the most he will use and know he shouldn't. I am not sure where to go with this. It isn't really an issue, but he does know better. Zinnia has been subbing at the school and I am jealous. I know I will be able to again, but it sure would be nice to get out. I haven't been to the school at all this year, just lunch a couple of times. My head keeps me at home. It's been like this 3 out of 4 weeks each month. N is working on his plans with the boats and refinancing. He is ready to part with a boat and vehicle, but goes back and forth about it. This has been going on for 6 months or more. At least the refinancing seems to be coming along. It will be great to have that figured out. He did come home yesterday with talks of buying yet, another boat. Nearly put me over the top. I'm sorry, but we have to draw the line at owning three boats. There's no room! That's an entire posting on it's own. It's Daffodil's birthday tomorrow. Sure wish we could celebrate together one of these days. Hate to stop here, but my boys are up. Bake sale coming up and Seven wants to make a bag of bones. We'll see how this goes.

Am I weak?

Her time wasn't up. I couldn't do it. I tried, but after keeping her awake until 9pm, she was too tired to even be upset with bedtime. Tuesday is going to be the day. Last night she only woke up once. We've got to get regular. I had the worlds worst migraine yesterday. We'll see how the week goes.

Her time is up

In the past, we've used a sleep training method with out kids. It's worked out just fine. Eight was the worst, we didn't know what we were doing. It took a week. Seven, he was a text book baby all the way. It was three days, 30 minutes, then 15, then 5. I waited until Five was older due to moving. She too was easy. I've made a few attempts with Baby Girl, but no luck. I haven't followed through very well. Tonight has put me over the top. Tomorrow we will sleep train. The problem is I have no where to do this. In the past, we've always had the baby in their own room. With Five, they were all in the same room, but babies themselves at the time. Didn't phase them one bit to have her cry, the boys slept right through it. She knows every sound in my room. She knows the creak in my bed and in the doors. My only option would be to move a kid out of their room. This disrupts the kid. They have school and are established in their room. N has been displaced since Baby Girl has been born. My solution, to displace myself. If we take our mattress out of our room, she can sleep train in there on her own. I'd have to have N's clothing out for work the next day. I think we will give it a try. What can it hurt? We need a 4 bedroom house. I am convinced more now than ever.

Fun Friday night in Freeland

It's homecoming in town. We went to the parade. It's within walking distance from our house. Everyone had a great time. We came home with too much candy and lots of energy. It wasn't too cold out for Baby Girl. The kids were proud to see their teachers in the parade. Seven told me: "Mom, did you see that group of girls who walked by? I knew every one of them." Again, so proud. Fun night and fun times. After, Azalea and family came over for chicken tacos. The kids played and had fun together. IT was a great end to a great night.

It's a team effort

It's nights like tonight when I think, I don't know what I would do without N. We decided to take the kids to the pool. Our membership expires on Sunday, this was our last chance to go as a family. We did and it was great. The ride home had some poor attitudes. It just disappointed me. Here we just finished having such a great time and they are after each other. Early bedtime was the solution. We ate and away they went. Five had a melt down and a phone call with Grandma helped her out. Everyone was in their beds before 8. N fixed the meal, served the meal and cleaned up the kitchen. I was busy trying to meet all of Baby Girl's needs and then some. They go back to school tomorrow for one day. Who knows what the weekend will bring. Last soccer games of the season. Hope the rain stays away or Baby Girl and I will be watching from the Van.

On the road again

Tomorrow we depart MN. It was a good visit. We made the most of our time together. We laid Great Grandma to rest. She is where she's wanted to be for some time now. Tonight on our last night, we enjoyed burgers and shakes, always a favorite. Uncle Dv made excellent burgers. The fisherman tried his final attempt to catch a fish. He did bring home one walleye. N brought it to my attention that Baby Girl was born a decade after my Grandfather. He was born in 1912, she in 2012. He was a July birthday, she April. We will try to make it home in one day tomorrow. It's a challenge, I pray it goes just as well as our trip here. The kids are sad, but Christmas is right around the corner. We will be back here before we know it. More school to attend, church activities and this weekend will be the last of the soccer season. Much to look forward to in wrapping up 2012.

One day to go

We're down to the end. We've got a mess downstairs and I'm really not anxious to pack it all up. I can't believe how much stuff we brought and used. Today we hit the bookstore and found some new reading material for the ride home. We're planning on trying to go the entire way home in one day. We did it once, we should be able to do it again. It wasn't too bad. Doing it in one day seems a little better. Two days just drag it out. Oh, there's Baby Girl. Guess she wasn't ready for bed.

The snow is gone

Today the last of the snow melted in the yard. It was their snowman, all the snow that remained. They had a great time in the snow. Eight said this town was the luckiest town in the world. We relaxed today and took it easy. Grandma fried walleye and made everyone's day! Not sure the plan for tomorrow, but we are enjoying our time in MN.

Five and Seven stories

Yesterday she was in the basement for a very long time by herself. I recently took out my doll house. She's to the age where she can play with it now and not break anything. I would like to finish it and put it in her room, but that's a project for maybe next month. After awhile, she came upstairs and said "Mom, I was playing with your doll house. I pretended the kids were at school and the mom and dad moved furniture around the house." Is this what she thinks we do all day? I noticed she also created a play area in the living room for the baby and put the big girl's bunk beds in the baby room with the baby. There is a crib in the mom and dad's room too. What a girl. At her soccer game this weekend, a five year old team mate asked me "Is it hard to have four kids?" I was blown away by that question coming from a five year old. Another funny comment, last night Seven came into my room and gave me a big hug. Then he said "I wish there was another baby in there. Baby Girl can have her birthday and then another girl can come." Who has he been talking to?

Tic Toc

After two days of running around to stores, I think I have everything we need to attend the funeral and make the trip. I found clothing for everyone. My bases are covered. Now to get my house cleaned and everyone packed. I hope Baby Girl is cooperative tomorrow so I can get it all done. It's picture day for the big kids. I think I have all that straightened out too, just need to make negotiations with Seven and his clothing. Say a prayer for me.

Rejoice in this life

Can you tell I was distracted in my previous blog entry? I think of how my day started out this morning, snuggling with Seven on the couch. Then along came Five. We snuggled too, then I decided to go back to bed. She followed and we laid in my room. I fell asleep and she bolted. It's mornings like that I feel we don't get enough of. This was the first morning to sleep in all month. No game to run to, no early church. Today during mass, Fr. B talked about learning from others. Grandma taught me so much in my lifetime. I'll never forget. She gave me a foundation that I am now trying to pass on to my own children. I looked up to her in many ways. I tried to be more like her. I loved her.

Find joy in the sadness

Today, this last day in September brought my Grandmother to where she's wanted to be for some time now. She was the last one of her siblings, 17 kids. She'd asked many times why she was the last one. She is at peace, finally. I will miss her terribly. Every chance I got, I went to visit her. She gave so much to me, more than she'll ever know. In uploading some pictures, I stumbled upon four short video clips. Five thought she was taking a picture, when the video was actually on. They are just seconds long, but you can see the joy in her face with Baby Girl. It's going to be a tough week. We will have to find joy in our sadness. She would want us to be together and enjoy each other.

Making preparations

Well, I was hoping all the death and dying in my family would cease for awhile, but no such luck. A distant relative passed away, but I am not sure I ever knew this person. The sad news is my grandmother has taken a turn for the worse. She possibly had a stroke and is not eating or drinking. She's tough, but I guess it's painful to watch her struggle to breath. Guess it's down to the waiting game. We were lucky to have had a great visit with her in August. While it was not quite like last time, it was still great. She didn't say much. Before, she would ask who we were and where we'd come from. It would be the same questions over and over after 10 minutes had passed. This last time, she just didn't talk. Eventually she began to speak, but it was well into our visit. She is 92 years old. More than 10 years ago, she'd talk about dying. She was ready. Everyone around her was dying. Everyone she knew. I have many great memories of her. She was always a very special person in my life. I tried to visit her as often as I could, especially when I lived in that area. Life is quite different without living near your relatives. What a turn of events this will be. Of all the deaths lately, this will be the one we need to attend. So many things raced through my mind once I heard this news. What day will we leave? Which direction will we go? How much school will they miss? How much homework will we bring? Tuesday is picture day and count day. I know they want all the students there that day. Depending on when things are, that could be the day we leave, right when N is done with work. We will see. Lots of things have to happen first. I can't help it. The wheels start turning.

Beautiful Michigan Saturday

Five scored her third goal at soccer today. We were so proud of her. They love playing soccer, but lately getting out the door has been just too stressful for this mama. They cry and fuss over putting on their gear. That much drama, I don't want to deal with it next season. I'm not sure all should play. WE'll see. We got haircuts today. Spent some time on the playground with friends. Now we're home for a nice night at home. It's beautiful outside. So thankful for nice days.

Back to her old habits

Zinnia warned me Baby Girl's schedule could change. For the past three days, I've tried to keep things the same. Two nights in a row success! Last night, FAILURE. OH well. We will take it one day at a time. I am not certain what was different about last night, but she cried for awhile. Maybe the temperature, it seemed a little cool. Today, we are trying again. Keeping the naps short and the girl well fed. We set up her play area last night. Five pulled out toys for Baby Girl to play with today while Five was at school. She is on the move! Never stays in the same place. I've been hooked on Shutterfly lately. Too many codes for free books, etc. Today I got some cards made and ordered with $10 off. They even mail the card for you! Looking forward to hearing what the recipients think. Some of them are Readers! Speaking of reading, it's been awhile since I've finished a book. I was nearly finished with Jodi Picoult's 19 Minutes, but haven't been able to get back to it yet. Just now do I feel like I can start focusing on what I would like to get out of my day instead of what has to be done. I hope to add a workout into my routine sooner than later. I guess I've been holding off. I've just had too many migraines and too little sleep to focus on more than the necessities. I've been in survival mode. I'm ready for more, I think. Each night I get more sleep is one step closer to some sense of normal. The picture order I got today are pics for Baby Girl's baby book. I also started a year calendar. I did this with all the other kids, had to follow through for Baby Girl. The thing I haven't followed through with is taking her to a portrait studio. I feel so guilty about that. I plan to go at the 6 month mark regardless my past habits. She will get one done then, before she becomes an independent sitter. Well, she starting to fuss. Have to see if I can get these pics in the book quick. Still need to mail 3 sympathy cards. A play date for after school and I have winter coats in the basement that need to be put up. Better hop to it. Cookie dough this AM slowed me down. The house is back together from the carpet cleaning. Serious howls, time is really up.

Still going

Happy to report, another great night from Baby Girl! So excited. The morning was a whirlwind with kids out the door and Baby Girl + myself. I headed to the doc for some prescription consults and N cleaned our carpets. He did a great job. I am so thankful. We got some estimates and I knew they would be high. It was a lot of work, but only cost us $35. Sure beats $179. It feels so good to have clean carpet again. I was surprised at how well the machine worked. It was a Bissel from the grocery store. Much better than a rug dr. Now to de-clutter and reorganize. I plan to create a space in the living room for Baby Girl. I also want to eliminate some pieces. Guess they will find a home in the basement. Time is up. She's fussy. At least I got some lunch and this much written.

Progress is made

What an improvement from the night before! I was sort of depressed and down all day yesterday. No sleep the night before, just trying to keep it all together was exhausting. I eliminated all expectations I would normally have for myself and just took the day as it came. Baby Girl didn't nap all morning. We just relaxed and slowly got things done. Five was tired and had a hard time getting out the door. I told her MAYBE Baby Girl and I would come for lunch. Well, we made it. I brought Five and Seven a McD's drink. Baby Girl slept through the entire kindergarten lunch. Yup. Baby Girl 1, Mom 0. She was awake at the end and stayed awake all through 2nd grade lunch. This was her first nap of the morning. She did sleep for about 5-10 minutes before that. After lunch, we ran home to get Five's library books. Turns out she didn't even have library, but oh well. They are where they belong. I fed her the last bowl of rice cereal before going to the school. We stopped at the store for more and came home. N was home shortly. Baby Girl showed no signs of napping. I left her with him and finally got my nap in. It was short, but that's ok. The rest of the night continued and I think I've nailed her routine. While she did have a few really short naps in the afternoon and evening, I kept her awake until 8:30. No long naps, nothing more than 15 minutes. Guess I will try to keep it that way, at least until we have a weeks worth of progress. I fed her a bowl of cereal and half a jar of sweet potatoes at 7:45. I put her in the bath around 8. She was knocked out by 8:30. I wanted to put her down awake, but she was completely out. Around 9 she cried, but only for less than 10 minutes. I didn't go get her. She slept from then until either 12 or 2AM. I can't remember, but I fed her then and that was it. She didn't wake up again until 5. It still seems like a lot, feeding twice in the night, but boy oh boy, its a big improvement from every 2 hours. She's rolling over now and I worry about her at night. At 5AM she did roll on her tummy and was struggling. She's still swaddled. I have found that is key. Not swaddled, she can't stay asleep for very long. I will take what I can get and hope for the best. We will see where it goes. On another note, tragedy comes in 3's they say. We've had three deaths in my family and friends. Granted, everyone was 75 or older, but still so surprising. We haven't had a death in the family for a long time, now three in one week. Miss Diane at home, her mother passed away. She was a sweet, sweet lady. This is the grandmother to the girl we know who has the same name as Baby Girl. Her sister is having a baby in Dec, her first. She and Orchid were inseparable for many years. They are really great people and I feel so bad for their loss. The second passing was my mothers cousins husband. He battled breathing problems for many years. He was a heavy smoker. Growing up, he always had a comment for us kids and wasn't afraid to speak to us. They would always come camping. Big heart and lots of jokes. He was a nice man. I remember joining my grandparents and mother to their wedding. They lived in South Dakota. The third death was just yesterday. My grandfather's sister in law, Lois. Lois was married to Lowell, my grandfathers older brother. Lowell was the kindest man. He and Lois lived across town from my parents. I remember one night we stopped by and they were eating spaghetti and tiny meat balls. I remember thinking I wish my mom would make spaghetti like that. We always would have ground beef in our meat sauce. Lois let me borrow a pair of earrings for prom. They were the exact color of my dress. She loved to sew and wore the same dresses from her prime years, many years later. She was always positive and happy. You could count on her to come to family things. I still remember seeing her little blue car in town at places I would roller blade by. Turns out, her daughter sells sewing machines at the fabric store. Apple didn't fall far from the tree there. R even has a picture on FB of her mother sewing. I am not sure what year it is, but it's black and white and from many years ago. Such a nice lady, Lois will be missed. So, enough with the drama. Today is a new day and I'm up early. I slept so many hours straight, I don't know what to do with myself. I started out with coffee and will go from there. Today is N's day off. I'd like to make some progress and changes in this house, but we will see. I know he wants to go fishing. I've been waiting for him to go for a few weeks now. I am eager to get a carpet machine in here sooner than later. Perhaps that will be our task today. We'll see where the day takes us.

NO SLEEP! NO SLEEP!

All that positive energy from last night was sucked out of me by the fussy baby in my room. By 4AM, I just left her in her crib. I didn't know what to do with her. She cried for a long time. At 5 AM, I was in tears. N was up and leaving for work soon. I know we need to establish a strict bedtime routine, but things like RE until 7:30 make it difficult. Sticking to it is difficult, just another challenge with big kids and a baby. They were all babies at the same time, it was easy to have the same routine. We do in some ways, but it was all later last night because of RE. We need to do the sleep training process, but I am afraid she will not be text book like my other kids. We'll see how it goes. Say a prayer for me if you have one to spare.

After a phone call...

It's after talking to my mother I remember all the things I should be blogging about. It's like an update refresher. This weekend we were at soccer games for everyone. It was cool and I had to dig out warm gear. Thankfully, I had a light snow suit for Baby Girl. I have the Bundle Me, but if she doesn't stay in the car seat, it's no good at keeping her warm. The snow suit fit perfectly and she was covered. She loves soccer games. Her arms and legs go as fast as they can when the kids run by her. Five did great. She's fast, but runs circles on the field, around the ball and other girls. She's funny and will figure it out eventually. She has scored a few goals and is very proud. Seven was hilarious this weekend. If you know him, you know he doesn't like pants and has a hard time switching clothing during the change of seasons. For the game, he put on a short sleeve shirt with a hood, camo color. This was under his jersey. He had on shorts and gloves, along with a head band for his ears. After awhile, he took off the headband. Next thing I know, he's got his hood up and the headband on over the hood. He looked like he belonged walking in the desert. I wonder what the other parents thought of him running around on the field dressed like that. What can I say, he walks to the beat of his own drum. The star system continues to work. Today I earned a star. Oh, just remembered I already blogged about this today. We had our first night of RE tonight. I was set to help Daisy, but found myself with the kindergarten and preschoolers instead. I filled in for Mrs. J, who is out of the state. A mix up with knowing if she was coming or not left me in charge of a room full of little kids. No books or materials, just what was in the room. I had to wing it and I think we did alright. We colored, sang a song and learned some hand gestures to go along with it. They had fun, I think. Tomorrow is another day. Baby Girl and I will be alone for most of the day. It's Friday for N and the kids will be excited we have nothing going on. Soccer will keep us busy on Wed. Should be a nice week.

Feelin good about my accomplishments

Today was a three star morning, actually four. N left for work. Some days, I am able to get him a lunch, coffee, etc. Some days, I am not. Today was a good day and he told Seven I should get a star since I had lunch, breakfast, coffee and water all ready for him. I even sent one of my favorite yogurts as a special treat. Seven found that hilarious and drew a pink star on the fridge calendar for me. What a guy. After they left, I managed to get the kitchen cleaned, laundry started, supper in the crock pot, and the downstairs bathroom wiped down. I was also able to feed Baby Girl, change her and make a few phone calls. Now she's asleep. It feels good to have everything in order. Don't get me wrong, there's lots still to do. I am content with what I have accomplished this morning. What's left will get done when it gets done. I am not sure why, but I have the desire for my kids rooms to be clean before they are off to school. Five's room looks great. She halfway made her bed and everything is off her floor. The boys had a disaster this AM. I know they got it all cleaned except the Lego's. They aren't bad, they have been worse. I will vacuum the living room when Baby Girl is awake. Laundry will need to be folded and put away. The bathroom upstairs was cleaned yesterday. It's going to be a great night for our first RE class. I am teaching Seven's group with Daisy. We have a new director. I told her to put me where she needed me. We'll see how Baby Girl does with her Daddy. This will be a weekly thing for the two of them. Hang out while the rest of us are at church. Future goals, finish finding all the winter clothing. I have three coats for Eight. I think I will offer one to Sunflower for Cousin #5. He's just a little bit bigger than Eight and one was big on Eight. I have three snow pants for him too, but think I'll hold on to those. He needs to try them on, they are different sizes. I have two coats for Seven, three if I get a zipper fixed. He may not wear one so I will keep all of them until we figure out which coat he likes. He only has one pair of snow pants. I have two coats for Five, but one too needs repair. The pull on the zipper came off. She has four pairs of snow pants. This surprised me, but I didn't realize another mom had given her two pair last spring. I try to have two per child. One coat for school, one for play. One snow pants to stay at school, one for home. Many times, they will get dirty playing in the snow in the back yard. It's nice to have an old coat they can go out in and not worry about it being too dirty for school the next day. Wet coats can take longer to dry. Everyone has one pair of boots, some two. This too is necessary as boats can get wet and take awhile to dry. Baby Girl will be in her Bundle Me for the season. A Bundle Me is sort of a sleeping bag that fits in the car seat. Just zip her up and she stays warm. Just trying to get it all together can be exhausting. I tore apart things in the basement in search of these items. Now that they are found, I need to put the basement back together. I have a table full of garbage bags of things for a garage sale! Boy does that feel good. My goal is to go through each room, closet, cupboard and drawer and ELIMINATE CLUTTER! We'll see how it goes. She's up. Time's up.

4 AM is too early for my day to begin

I hear noise upstairs, it's not good. Baby Girl had me up at 4 AM. Changed her diaper and she was ready to party. I'm not sure who is up now, but I'd put money on Seven. He'd wake up Eight to play Lego's. IT's going to be a long day. Yesterday at Zinnia's was great. We hit two soccer games in the AM, then off to their house we went. The kids had a great time. They played outside and ran hard. We were there from 1-5 and no one wanted to go home. It got ugly at that point and I knew we needed to get home. Tired kids. Everyone needed a bath. We will be out the door early for mass this morning. 11 o'clock soccer games on Sunday mornings aren't my fav. I think this is our last one. N has the day off! Whoot Whoot! He'll be home to help. Well, whoever is stirring upstairs has not come down. Another bad sign, both boys are up. Better go try kick them back into their beds, at least for another 15-20.

First family lunch at school

Today we brought our Subway lunch to school. The kids were thrilled with themselves and their sandwiches. It was a good day in Freeland. Tomorrow is soccer and we get to play in the new fort at Zinnia's house. The kids are excited. Her kids are excited. It's been awhile since they've played together. Zinnia's kids built a fort with their dad. It looks great and I know they will have fun. A chili dinner is the plan. I am sure it will be a great day. Baby Girl spent the afternoon with her daddy today. I went to help Daisy get her house in order.

I'm seeing stars

Our star system is working! Everyone has had three stars each morning this week. After school has been a different story. Each day, one person hasn't earned a star. Yesterday, it was Five. She asked me why she was crying and why she didn't yesterday. Poor girl is trying to figure it out. Tomorrow we will bring Subway for lunch. Everyone will be so thrilled. It's finally coming together. Kids are getting used to the routine and adjusted to school life. The first two weeks are the hardest and they are thankfully behind us. Boy do I love a good deal! I went to Salvation Army today and found lots of great deals. I spent $30 on 22 items. This included 2 pairs of snow pants. I'm not sure what will fit Eight this year and found a bigger size for him. Five has a pair, but can always use a back up pair. Hot pink will be popular. I like for them to leave a pair in their lockers at school, that way they don't have to transport them back and forth. I also found a spinning color light for Baby Girl. Five has one in her room and Baby Girl loves it. I couldn't believe I found it. The first one we got during Walleye Festival for $.50. Today, I paid $1.25. I can't wait for the kids to be surprised. I also just happened to find Lego Star Wars long sleeve shirts for each boy. Good times. Hope to find some more sooner than later. Seven needs new pants. He grew over the summer and now all his pants are short. N was called in to work tonight. Kids will be disappointed. Eight specifically asked if he would be home tonight and wanted to do something fun. We do what we have to do I guess. Baby Girl isn't sleeping well at night still. We need to do some sleep training. I've had a migraine all week. It's finally gone today. Three weeks in a row I've been trying to make it to evening meetings. Only one week did I make it. Next week, RE begins. I hope to make it for that. I've volunteered as a catechist, but am not sure I'll be able to commit the entire year. N's schedule will change in January. He will work nights on Monday. We'll see how it works out. Well, on to something else. Better get my loads switched.

Illness has made it's way in

I'm up with Eight tonight. I believe he has strep. He isn't the one to complain. Guess I know my plans for tomorrow. Poor boy. He's always such a good sport about things too. To get him down takes a lot. Last night I was up with Five. My kids sleep through the night and are never up, this is rough on me in addition to Baby Girl. Five hit her head on her bed. This has happened once before. My remedy was a pillow to run interference with her head. I hope that works. Good thing N is home tomorrow. I hope he can get the other two out the door, maybe Eight and I can get some rest. I'll keep you posted.

The Girl at the ball

It's a favor for a friend. A night of fun, food and dancing. Her Date is polite, but nervous. There is no connection or attraction. They are simply together to have a good time. The car drives down the freeway, wheels go round and round. She's been on many dates before, all similar experiences and missing something.

They arrive at the Ball. Formal introductions are made to many people. Names and faces flash before her, not noticing any in particular. She's never been here before, does not know much about those around her. In her mind, she won't meet these people again. It's all a new environment, different from any other.

She spots him from across the room. He starts to make his way to her. Four people standing together for introductions, the Football Player, the Date, and the Lieutenant. The conversation starts with the Football Player asking her if there are other "good looking girls like her around because the Lieutenant is looking for a wife." The Lieutenant's face turns red as he grins. She thinks, pick me. Her heart flutters. She is enchanted to meet him.

It's time to sit down. He leaves. Her heart sinks. Suddenly, he turns around and approaches her at the table. His place card is right next to hers, Ms. C and Lieutenant B. They have been seated together. Brought together by something other than their own plan or ideas.

Conversation starts at a table of strangers. She visits with all at the table, her Date remaining silent. Her friends are merely Cadets and are seated at another table. The Lieutenant is to the right of her, pouring her wine. They discuss anything and everything. A sweet lady sits across from them, next to the Football player. She not shy and talks to everyone. Still, the Date is quiet. The dinner is the longest she has ever been to. Many courses. Stand up, sit down, toast everyone possible, including the President.

Finally the dance begins. She finds the Cadets. They are in a big group. Everyone is having a great time. Suddenly, the first slow song is played. There she stands in a circle of friends. The Date does not approach her, but the Lieutenant does. The music plays and they dance around the room. She's wonder-struck, there is no one else except her and him.

Her Date becomes ill. He asks the Lieutenant to take her home. The Date brings her coat and things. Once again, he is polite and says goodbye.

She's filled with excitement. The Lieutenant meets her at the table. They've shared their first meal and first dance. He leans over and gently gives her a kiss. She's forgotten his name. Brian, Ryan? She just can't remember. Then he says "Nathan."

The Cadets inquire about the Lieutenant, but approve. Not ready for the night to end, they drive to have coffee. It's late, but she's not tired. Before coffee, he kisses her again. They share each others story. She's never felt this way before and thinks she will marry him. This is something she keeps to herself because it sounds to crazy to say right now.

He brings her back to her hall. She asks if he wants to walk her up. They are complimented by strangers as they enter the hall. He comes to her room. There are no words held back, they discuss everything. They talk until morning.

He leaves and she can't sleep. A phone call to a good friend to share her experience. Sleep comes, but only for a few hours. She attends early mass and continues her day, thinking of him. Mid-morning, he calls. He shows up with flowers and wants to take her out to eat. It is the beginning of the end. An end to her seeing anyone else. This is it. She has finally found him.

They are truly blessed to have met and shared such a wonderful life together at this point and beyond.

Today

Today is the anniversary day of the night I met N. It was at the military ball in Grand Forks, ND. What a night to remember. Last spring I wrote a short story about that night. I plan to try to post it again. Look how far we've come. Seems like so long ago, then other times not so much.

Pal and Karen

For some reason or another, these two have been on my mind more than once lately. Pal and Karen were the neighbors who lived in the red house behind my parents. We used to wander over there as kids and visit. I remember how cool their house felt on a hot summer day. Sometimes she would be canning pickles or relish. They would always welcome us, wandering in from the neighborhood. Even though we were just kids, they still made us feel important. They were the nicest people. Pal had MS and walked with a cane. He always had a nick name for us Squirt, Pancho, etc. He was always such a positive man. Karen would use a high pitch in her voice and greet me with a "Hi Krissy!" She's the only one who ever called me Krissy. They would ask about our extended family, curious how the relatives they knew where. Genuinely nice people. The last time I saw Karen, she'd gotten cancer. It came quick and took her fast. I knew it as soon as she opened the door that day, things were not the same. The high pitch in her voice was gone. She was tired and we didn't stay long. Pal passed away within the last year. Sad to say, I never went to see him when he was in the nursing home. I wasn't sure he would know who I was, but that was not an excuse. I should have gone regardless. I'm told he remained positive and optimistic about life right up until the end. I am fortunate to have introduced three out of my four children to them. Karen just loved babies. I took the boys over there when they were little. I was proud to bring Five over there when she was a baby. This past summer, I wished to bring Baby Girl over to meet Karen. Their son Marky lives there now. He shared some watermelon and cucumbers from his garden this summer. He's not quite the same as his parents, but can bring a smile to your face with a joke or comment. Not everything is passed down from parent to child, but somethings are and it's always nice to recognize those things in a person. I want to post a picture of my parents laughing while holding Baby Girl. It's from our trip there this summer. They are laughing at Marky's joke or comment he'd just shared. Like I said, I'm not sure what made me think of them and these memories, but here they are. Inspired a blog entry, good enough for me.

Missing out

Still, haven't worked blogging into my routine. I feel like I am missing out on recording the things my kids say and do. Like this am, I had on a sleeveless shirt. Baby Girl started licking my shoulder. The older kids thought that was the funniest thing. We had a great adventure to N's aunt and uncle's house yesterday. Right on the lake, boy was it nice. Everyone had a great time. Got to see some relatives we haven't seen since 2003. Kids were off today and I started to clean. I didn't get as far as I'd like, but there's always tomorrow.

The new star system

The first two weeks of school have been a challenge, I knew it would. This week we decided to start a Star System. Each AM and PM they can earn a star. At the end of the week if they have 8 or more, they get a privilege/treat. I hope it works. Everyone is optimistic and excited. Not too much to write about today. Zinnia's group left for a great adventure today. N tried to have the pilot greet them on the plane, but I guess it wasn't a go. We can't wait to hear how great their vacation will be. Baby Girl hasn't done so well on the sleep front. She ate a ton of cereal tonight, more than any other time. I hope that helps. They say it should, but hasn't so far. Tomorrow is Friday, we'll have made it through an entire two weeks. Hats off to moms everywhere!

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Not the best day

What a tough night, so glad it is behind us. I had a migraine, didn't help the situation. Fussy baby, I think she just wanted to see her people. They were on a bike ride with their dad. What a fun outing for them, too bad it turned into a bloody mess. Baby Girl and I get the groceries put away and get a phone call from N. They were halfway home and needed a ride. I arrived to Seven crying on the ground, blood dripping from both knees. All summer we made it without bad injuries and now that school has begun we get them. Lord only knows how long he will favor his injury. We've only had one other incident with this much blood, etc. To top it off, we decided it was time to cut their hair. Eight was buzzed and fine, quick to shower. Seven had still oh so much drama. The haircut, a bath, it was all tough. Tonight, I missed a meeting at church. It was for the Catechists. I sure do wish I felt better about committing to be a Catechist. I'm just not sure. I've been praying about it. I love doing it, but feel I am so tired by that time of night, I may not make a good instructor for the kids. Is it fair to them? To Baby Girl who needs me? More prayer is needed I believe.

Listen to someone you don't want to

Roughly, that was Fr. B's message at church. He handed out ear plugs to the kids and said all to often we don't listen to each other. Politicians don't listen to each other. In honor of two presidential candidates, he said we need to listen to each other in more ways than one. We enjoyed a wonderful afternoon at the church picnic with our church family. That's exactly how it felt, like family. It was great to visit with so many people. Everyone was relaxed and there was happiness in the air. My children had a terrific time. They didn't want to leave. We missed Seven's soccer game. We made it to Five and Eight. Everyone was in a great mood for most of the day. Things got a little questionable after so much fun, but a bike ride before bedtime helped.

Last night, I dreamt of Texas

For one reason or another, I felt like I was back in Texas when I woke up this morning. I guess it was probably telling one more person that we still own our house in TX yesterday at the church picnic. We've been discussing houses and too often I am comparing houses here to that house. We fell into that house and didn't get enough time in it. We were comfortable in that house. There was so much space, I didn't feel like we were maxed out. I woke up with thoughts of taking my children to Sea World. How different would our life be if we'd stayed? It was a great place. I'd go back anytime.

Sometimes you get burned

Today Daisy and I went to a sale at the local Lutheran church. Everything you could fit into a paper bag for $5. What a deal! I found a number of great things. One I thought was a great find, a winter coat for Seven. It's blue, just like Eight's. I was certain this would be a great discovery. I was wrong when I had him try it on. No zipper. Burned. Not sure how much a new one would cost or if it is worth the effort. I found a nice coat for Sunflowers boys. Everyone was thrilled with what I found for them. I was very excited to find a white fur coat for Baby Orchid. She's changing so much. I am so thankful for Skype. We get to see her on a regular basis. It makes my day to see the new things she is learning daily. We had well child checks yesterday. Five did great, but Seven not so much. The nurse brought out gowns for them to wear. Seven took one look at the gown and said "That is not going to happen." He's also had some issues at school. I heard through the grapevine he couldn't do his work because he was "too hot to write." I am not certain, but he may have had to stay in for recess. It took him 3 minutes to get it done. I think that is what happened. I asked him about staying in, but he thinks he didn't. The teacher called me today. He only took a drink and sandwich for his lunch. Again, trouble listening in the morning. If he had been listening, he would have had the rest of his lunch packed. We wrote up a contract for him to try to change things. I believe it worked. The twinkle in his eye this afternoon gives me confidence. He wrote a list of five things. 1. I will put away my shoes. 2. I will hang up my back pack 3. I will unpack my lunch box. 4. I will do my homework (when asked). 5. I will do my spelling. These are his five things. He wasn't happy about the when asked part and said he would do the homework when he wanted to. Oh boy. That boy puts me over the top. Soccer tomorrow, Five is first thing in the AM. Eight is later in the day. No plans other than those two things. The evening will consist of making cakes for the church picnic! So excited for that on Sunday.

IT's Friday

We survived the first week. Five did great. I am so proud of her. Eight was thrilled to be at the big school. He's also done very well. Seven, I'm just not sure what to do about him. I heard through the grapevine he couldn't write this week because he was too hot. If any of the elements are not in line, he can be thrown off his game. I got a phone call from the teacher today, not because of behavior, but lunch. He only had the sandwich and drink I packed. We've been trying to keep them independent. They are responsible for packing the other items in their lunch. Look who didn't this am. There are city activities at the football field tonight. Perhaps we will walk over. I'm not really anxious to go to the game, but Five's teacher will be in a dunk tank and I think she wants to see that.