Well, after my little tantrum yesterday, I'd say things are heading in the right direction again. I did get a phone call from the school about Six, complaining his ear hurt. I brought him motrin and thought we were good to go. Then I called the Dr office just to be sure. Nope, they want to see him. And it's with my least favorite doc.
Oh well, better be safe than sorry. I am only traveling to the same office tomorrow and Wednesday. We'll see if Four requires a visit too by the end of the week. At least the office is less than 10 minutes away.
Monday, January 30, 2012
Sunday, January 29, 2012
Reassurance found?
When N came home, I ran to the store for my paper, alone. I had a nice conversation with Azalea, no kids bugging me. I do need a moms movie night out. Hopefully we can arrange that sometime this week. I really am eager to see The Help now that I read the book. We'll see if someone wants to host Azalea and myself. I'd do it here, but that sort of takes away from getting out.
Being reassured
Many times this past week, I feel the need to be reassured things are heading in the right direction. Today started out rough, got better, than rough again. I feel drained from this past week. I didn't feel it until today. Being away from home was hard to keep a schedule, get the school work done, meet all demands and try to stay healthy. Then they got sick. Lack of sleep, lack of order, no homework accomplished and a disaster waiting for no one else but me. Where do I find the energy and strength to pick up the pieces and continue? Some days I wonder.
Just when I thought we were on the right track with healthy, Six tosses the biggest fit this am. It started out at 6am with complaints that his cheek hurt. His cheek? Ok, have a Popsicle. With that to calm him down, I thought we were good to go. Four had been in my bed during the night. She was cold. The fire alarm started beeping sometime in the wee morning hours, lovely, new battery needed. After everyone was awake, Six has his big fit. He complains of extreme ear pain. So, its quite possible there was nothing wrong with his cheek this morning. He refuses medicine. Its a bit fight. I can't help him if he isn't willing to help himself. I try to get him to lay on a hot pad. I offer gum to chew to get the facial bones and tubes moving. Nothing pleases him and he just screams. Finally, after warming in the tub, he cooperates. I feed him a jelly sandwich, while he is in the tub. He agrees to take some motrin, a 1/2 pill at a time. He agrees to an Alavert to fix his nose. It doesn't work as well as Zyrtec, but goes down easier. Eventually, he falls asleep on his floor in his bathrobe. Probably for the best. Meanwhile, I need to get the other two plus myself ready for church. I leave Six until last.
He wakes up on his own, with a much better outlook on life. He gets dressed and away we go to church. I remembered our envelopes, treats and paint for Zinnia, but forgot my survey that was supposed to be turned in today.
Church is great. Happy people, happy children. Cookies, bars and donuts after and we are all pleased. All is well until we have to get in the car. People don't listen. I pull my muscles trying to buckle people. I hate our car. Yup. Hate is a strong word that I do not like to use. I hate our car. It's too hard with bigger kids, coats and winter gear. They can't buckle themselves. The seats are too close together. Seven can if he is the only one in the back seat. That means he needs to get in right away and buckle. Well, doesn't always happen when he's goofing off with his brother.
It doesn't go well. I am left feeling overwhelmed and sore. We drive home and I put them to work. The coat closet is once again, a disaster. It is filled with their things. They don't get the items on their shelf, it becomes a disaster. With Seven and Four on the closet job, I have Six pick up random things that are on the floor.
I am so tired of the laundry. We are out of soap. I forgot soap when we were at the store. I wanted to buy a paper today, but just did not have it in me to take all three kids into a store.
We have many pages of homework to do. They sit down and Seven gets to work on his own right away. Six is a whole different story. I lose patience. I can't sit and wait for him anymore. He has 4 sheets left and he will have to do them with his father later. I have done all the homework for the week. I am spent.
With having treats at church, they weren't hungry right away. I wait until after noon to feed them. Even then, I just pull out leftovers. I have no ideas for tonight's meal. I am irritated with certain people too. I don't want to speak bad about it, but just know it is a frustrating and unfair situation. Leads me to a whole other set of issues.
I thought I'd finally come to terms with staying here. The house buying talk left me wondering if I could really commit. Then a situation like this weekend comes up and I have doubts. Just doesn't seem fair. I wanted to be with my family this weekend, but could not.
If we buy a house, we won't buy a van. That means I am stuck with the car I hate even longer. I've wanted to replace that car for over 4 years now. I've tried to be so patient. I didn't mind when they were little. In the end, I was rather thankful. I could reach everyone if I needed to. They were small and all had seats with five point harnesses. Their buckles were easy to find. It seemed ideal. It's when they grew up that it got frustrating. The idea of not wanting to put an infant seat in the back anymore, my disgust with that was reminded when Sweet Pea was here. I hated trying to fit the infant carrier in the middle of the back seat. Once again, my back suffers. Then what does that lead to? Pills, rest time and possibly the chiropractor. Not a great plan.
My emotions then take me to doubts if I can do this with four kids. Just when I thought I had it figured out with three, I'm going to be tossed back to one the demands all needs met at that exact moment, not being able to do any of it herself. I admit, I've really, really enjoyed having big kids. It is very helpful that when they are thirsty, they can get themselves a drink of water. They know how to clean up, don't always want to, but have the ability. Same with getting dressed, putting on shoes, bringing their own backpacks, etc. Am I ready to start over? Not only do we not have anything ready for this baby, I am not sure I am ready. Too late now, it's on the way. I know we will love her and be so happy to have her in our family. I can't help that these ideas of doubt sneak in every once in awhile. My only answer is to pray for guidance and patience. I've tried to be patient with not getting things ready yet. I am so frustrated with this house. I wish to get a dumpster and just toss it all out the window. It seems like there's just too much junk everywhere. From their bedrooms to the kitchen and then don't even ask about the basement or garage. Where did we get it all? Why do we still have it? Why do we hold on to it?
See, how many ideas and thoughts come from one frustrating morning. I think I need a vacation or at least the afternoon off.
Just when I thought we were on the right track with healthy, Six tosses the biggest fit this am. It started out at 6am with complaints that his cheek hurt. His cheek? Ok, have a Popsicle. With that to calm him down, I thought we were good to go. Four had been in my bed during the night. She was cold. The fire alarm started beeping sometime in the wee morning hours, lovely, new battery needed. After everyone was awake, Six has his big fit. He complains of extreme ear pain. So, its quite possible there was nothing wrong with his cheek this morning. He refuses medicine. Its a bit fight. I can't help him if he isn't willing to help himself. I try to get him to lay on a hot pad. I offer gum to chew to get the facial bones and tubes moving. Nothing pleases him and he just screams. Finally, after warming in the tub, he cooperates. I feed him a jelly sandwich, while he is in the tub. He agrees to take some motrin, a 1/2 pill at a time. He agrees to an Alavert to fix his nose. It doesn't work as well as Zyrtec, but goes down easier. Eventually, he falls asleep on his floor in his bathrobe. Probably for the best. Meanwhile, I need to get the other two plus myself ready for church. I leave Six until last.
He wakes up on his own, with a much better outlook on life. He gets dressed and away we go to church. I remembered our envelopes, treats and paint for Zinnia, but forgot my survey that was supposed to be turned in today.
Church is great. Happy people, happy children. Cookies, bars and donuts after and we are all pleased. All is well until we have to get in the car. People don't listen. I pull my muscles trying to buckle people. I hate our car. Yup. Hate is a strong word that I do not like to use. I hate our car. It's too hard with bigger kids, coats and winter gear. They can't buckle themselves. The seats are too close together. Seven can if he is the only one in the back seat. That means he needs to get in right away and buckle. Well, doesn't always happen when he's goofing off with his brother.
It doesn't go well. I am left feeling overwhelmed and sore. We drive home and I put them to work. The coat closet is once again, a disaster. It is filled with their things. They don't get the items on their shelf, it becomes a disaster. With Seven and Four on the closet job, I have Six pick up random things that are on the floor.
I am so tired of the laundry. We are out of soap. I forgot soap when we were at the store. I wanted to buy a paper today, but just did not have it in me to take all three kids into a store.
We have many pages of homework to do. They sit down and Seven gets to work on his own right away. Six is a whole different story. I lose patience. I can't sit and wait for him anymore. He has 4 sheets left and he will have to do them with his father later. I have done all the homework for the week. I am spent.
With having treats at church, they weren't hungry right away. I wait until after noon to feed them. Even then, I just pull out leftovers. I have no ideas for tonight's meal. I am irritated with certain people too. I don't want to speak bad about it, but just know it is a frustrating and unfair situation. Leads me to a whole other set of issues.
I thought I'd finally come to terms with staying here. The house buying talk left me wondering if I could really commit. Then a situation like this weekend comes up and I have doubts. Just doesn't seem fair. I wanted to be with my family this weekend, but could not.
If we buy a house, we won't buy a van. That means I am stuck with the car I hate even longer. I've wanted to replace that car for over 4 years now. I've tried to be so patient. I didn't mind when they were little. In the end, I was rather thankful. I could reach everyone if I needed to. They were small and all had seats with five point harnesses. Their buckles were easy to find. It seemed ideal. It's when they grew up that it got frustrating. The idea of not wanting to put an infant seat in the back anymore, my disgust with that was reminded when Sweet Pea was here. I hated trying to fit the infant carrier in the middle of the back seat. Once again, my back suffers. Then what does that lead to? Pills, rest time and possibly the chiropractor. Not a great plan.
My emotions then take me to doubts if I can do this with four kids. Just when I thought I had it figured out with three, I'm going to be tossed back to one the demands all needs met at that exact moment, not being able to do any of it herself. I admit, I've really, really enjoyed having big kids. It is very helpful that when they are thirsty, they can get themselves a drink of water. They know how to clean up, don't always want to, but have the ability. Same with getting dressed, putting on shoes, bringing their own backpacks, etc. Am I ready to start over? Not only do we not have anything ready for this baby, I am not sure I am ready. Too late now, it's on the way. I know we will love her and be so happy to have her in our family. I can't help that these ideas of doubt sneak in every once in awhile. My only answer is to pray for guidance and patience. I've tried to be patient with not getting things ready yet. I am so frustrated with this house. I wish to get a dumpster and just toss it all out the window. It seems like there's just too much junk everywhere. From their bedrooms to the kitchen and then don't even ask about the basement or garage. Where did we get it all? Why do we still have it? Why do we hold on to it?
See, how many ideas and thoughts come from one frustrating morning. I think I need a vacation or at least the afternoon off.
Saturday, January 28, 2012
Back in the saddle
I think we're back on track! Today, being Saturday was pretty casual. Church tomorrow and we will have quite a bit of homework to accomplish. Got my snacks made for cookies after mass. I love that part of the week. I love it even more now that I have met more members of our parish. My only regret or disappointment is that N can no longer come with us to church. He works Saturday evenings and Sunday mornings. New year changes can be difficult. I am thankful that was the only change. Other years his day off changed or the hours on many days were different, leaving me trying to figure it all out.
We had ice cream at Burger King today with Nw Moon and her family. Top secret business was discussed while the kids played.
We then traveled to Zinnia's where she kindly reminded me to bring treats tomorrow. I had forgotten. Thankfully, I have her to keep me on task. I brought my ingredients to her house and made my treats there. We did have some trouble with the things we made, but had a good time in the process. The kids were excellent. They usually play very well together, but today we hardly heard from them. They haven't seen each other in over a week, maybe that had something to do with it.
Happy to report things are much better with Baby Orchid. She got to go home and was smiling, acting like her happy little self again. Relief to her parents and all who love her. She is a treasure to our family.
The troops were in bed slightly later than I would have liked, but I shouldn't complain. They all fell asleep right away. Seven sounds better, his antibiotics are clearing his head. Six is still a little pistol, determined things should go his way. He's getting back in check with his attitude as the days go by. I am sure he will be in school mode this week. I fear what the summer months will bring. I may need Mrs. L on speed dial. Four too is back to normal and enjoyed playing with her friends today. I love seeing her and Zinnia's oldest outside on the swings together. They sit by each other, Four seems to just enjoy being my E. E is a good role model for Four.
I am so eager to get back to card making! We haven't had any nights of making cards since before Christmas. I'm anxious to work on some projects, including getting ready for this baby. Somehow, I need to pass my motivation on to N. He's not so eager to get ready. We've done nothing so far. It will be here before we know it. Gotta have somethings figured out. It's a challenge since we've parted with all our baby items. We still have our crib, but need a mattress. Orchid gave me a bag of clothing, but I need somewhere for it all to go. Hopefully February brings some much needed progress to our household.
We had ice cream at Burger King today with Nw Moon and her family. Top secret business was discussed while the kids played.
We then traveled to Zinnia's where she kindly reminded me to bring treats tomorrow. I had forgotten. Thankfully, I have her to keep me on task. I brought my ingredients to her house and made my treats there. We did have some trouble with the things we made, but had a good time in the process. The kids were excellent. They usually play very well together, but today we hardly heard from them. They haven't seen each other in over a week, maybe that had something to do with it.
Happy to report things are much better with Baby Orchid. She got to go home and was smiling, acting like her happy little self again. Relief to her parents and all who love her. She is a treasure to our family.
The troops were in bed slightly later than I would have liked, but I shouldn't complain. They all fell asleep right away. Seven sounds better, his antibiotics are clearing his head. Six is still a little pistol, determined things should go his way. He's getting back in check with his attitude as the days go by. I am sure he will be in school mode this week. I fear what the summer months will bring. I may need Mrs. L on speed dial. Four too is back to normal and enjoyed playing with her friends today. I love seeing her and Zinnia's oldest outside on the swings together. They sit by each other, Four seems to just enjoy being my E. E is a good role model for Four.
I am so eager to get back to card making! We haven't had any nights of making cards since before Christmas. I'm anxious to work on some projects, including getting ready for this baby. Somehow, I need to pass my motivation on to N. He's not so eager to get ready. We've done nothing so far. It will be here before we know it. Gotta have somethings figured out. It's a challenge since we've parted with all our baby items. We still have our crib, but need a mattress. Orchid gave me a bag of clothing, but I need somewhere for it all to go. Hopefully February brings some much needed progress to our household.
Friday, January 27, 2012
Prayers for Baby Orchid
My poor little sis had to watch her baby experience pain and discomfort today. It was a planned surgery. The situation is something that is easier to fix now rather than later. My understanding is this should be it. Still, it is so hard to watch your kids experience any kind of pain or discomfort. It's especailly hard when they don't understand and can't communicate their feelings to you. She's so little. I am thankful my parents were there to be with my sister and her husband during this time. Situations like these are even more difficult alone, believe me, I know. We haven't had a child in surgery, but when they took Four off to the NICU, I was nervous. You just never know what hand God will give you after your baby is born.
Baby Orchid should be doing much better by tomorrow. So happy to hear that. I hope the night isn't too long for her parents, but I am sure it will be. This too shall pass.
We're on the end of illness around here. Seven went back to school today. I think he was a little tired, but felt much better. Six and Four stayed home. Six had a fever in the wee hours of the morning, but was himself by breakfast. Four could have gone to preschool, she had been fever free for 24 hrs, but was too tired to get moving so soon in the morning. All will be back to schedule next Monday.
With slightly more sleep last night, I felt better today. A head cold is taking it's toll on me. I didn't do much today and it showed in our house. After an outing for groceries in town and to pick up Seven, everyone pitched in and we got the house up to Paar. Bedtime was a little questionable, but tomorrow is another day.
Baby Orchid should be doing much better by tomorrow. So happy to hear that. I hope the night isn't too long for her parents, but I am sure it will be. This too shall pass.
We're on the end of illness around here. Seven went back to school today. I think he was a little tired, but felt much better. Six and Four stayed home. Six had a fever in the wee hours of the morning, but was himself by breakfast. Four could have gone to preschool, she had been fever free for 24 hrs, but was too tired to get moving so soon in the morning. All will be back to schedule next Monday.
With slightly more sleep last night, I felt better today. A head cold is taking it's toll on me. I didn't do much today and it showed in our house. After an outing for groceries in town and to pick up Seven, everyone pitched in and we got the house up to Paar. Bedtime was a little questionable, but tomorrow is another day.
Thursday, January 26, 2012
The road to recovery
Illness has taken its toll on me. I am wiped out. Praying all sleep through the night.
N brought us home early from our mini vacation. Two nights in a row, in the same room with sick kids just didn't work. He drove us 2 hrs, turned around and drove 2 hrs back. Today was his last day of class. Last night was borderline worse than the other two.
Four and Six were up the second half of the night. Just when I get them all settled, Six tosses his motrin and water all over the nice arrangement I just completed. Thankfully there wasn't anything else in his tummy. Guess he can't have motrin on an empty tummy.
I wound up taking Seven in to the doc today. He has a double ear infection. Poor boy. I hope he sleeps better tonight. I believe last night was better for him than in the past week. He's on antibiotics now and heading in the right direction. We'll see how everyone feels tomorrow. As long as we have no fevers tonight, they are all going to school.
N brought us home early from our mini vacation. Two nights in a row, in the same room with sick kids just didn't work. He drove us 2 hrs, turned around and drove 2 hrs back. Today was his last day of class. Last night was borderline worse than the other two.
Four and Six were up the second half of the night. Just when I get them all settled, Six tosses his motrin and water all over the nice arrangement I just completed. Thankfully there wasn't anything else in his tummy. Guess he can't have motrin on an empty tummy.
I wound up taking Seven in to the doc today. He has a double ear infection. Poor boy. I hope he sleeps better tonight. I believe last night was better for him than in the past week. He's on antibiotics now and heading in the right direction. We'll see how everyone feels tomorrow. As long as we have no fevers tonight, they are all going to school.
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Flinstones on Tuesday
Not too impressed with Cartoon Network. It's the only station with cartoons in this hotel. My disappointment disappeared when the Flinstones came on. We've wanted to watch them for awhile, but could never find a DVD.
It's been interesting in other ways. Sure we've been to hotels before, but it's been awhile since we've spent more than one night. They were surprised about the lady coming to make our beds while we were in the pool. After close to 2 hrs, our room was "just like when we got here!" I told them to change while I took a shower and they asked "will she come in while we are changing?" Kids.
We took advantage of the time in the pool to go over some swimming lessons. We started out with level one, which they are all past. We'll try the more challenging stuff this afternoon on the boys.
The Jetsons are on now. We will watch them and get some school work done. Four and Six created homework for each other. It was too cute, as soon as we arrived they pulled out their homework for each other. Hope I can continue the homework enthusiasm.
It's been interesting in other ways. Sure we've been to hotels before, but it's been awhile since we've spent more than one night. They were surprised about the lady coming to make our beds while we were in the pool. After close to 2 hrs, our room was "just like when we got here!" I told them to change while I took a shower and they asked "will she come in while we are changing?" Kids.
We took advantage of the time in the pool to go over some swimming lessons. We started out with level one, which they are all past. We'll try the more challenging stuff this afternoon on the boys.
The Jetsons are on now. We will watch them and get some school work done. Four and Six created homework for each other. It was too cute, as soon as we arrived they pulled out their homework for each other. Hope I can continue the homework enthusiasm.
Sunday, January 22, 2012
Weakness comes from illness or time?
Since we have not been ill for so long, I think I have grown weak to playing nurse. Is it wrong to just wish for healthy kids right away and not want to put up with illness for more than 3 days? I guess this virus is going around. I heard it lasts around 3 days. I pray this is the last day for Seven. I really hoped he would wake up today, ready to go and be back to his normal self. Not so lucky. One more day of laying low and maybe he'll be healthy. I was up with him last night. Once I got him settled, it took me more than 2 hours to get myself settled. My own fault I guess. So many thoughts and ideas went through my mind.
We've brought up the subject of buying a house in MI. It's been brought up before, but no research or real ideas, just talk. Things seem a little different this time around. He's talked to the bank. He's calculated numbers. We will see where it takes us, but these were the cause of my thoughts in the middle of the night. My own calculations as to when would be the best time/deadline. We've got some big events coming up in the spring. How will we add moving to them? We've done it before and are sort of pros. Although we may be out of practice. We will have lived in this house for 3 years in April.
I feel so eager to buy a house and get settled. While some of it still scares me, I like the idea of feeling grounded. All our moving in the last 5 years has given me such a temporary feeling. I know it's had an impact on our kids as well. Seven once asked me if I thought we would still live here when he is in 3rd grade. I believe he was only 5 when he asked me that question. It's been so long since we've had a place of our own.
We looked at listings. Some are more ideal than others. Once again, we shall see where it takes us.
We head out of town tomorrow. Have to pack and get organized. Hopefully they will all be healthy and we'll have a great time. Better get myself going. Lots of prep work to be done for the great week ahead!
We've brought up the subject of buying a house in MI. It's been brought up before, but no research or real ideas, just talk. Things seem a little different this time around. He's talked to the bank. He's calculated numbers. We will see where it takes us, but these were the cause of my thoughts in the middle of the night. My own calculations as to when would be the best time/deadline. We've got some big events coming up in the spring. How will we add moving to them? We've done it before and are sort of pros. Although we may be out of practice. We will have lived in this house for 3 years in April.
I feel so eager to buy a house and get settled. While some of it still scares me, I like the idea of feeling grounded. All our moving in the last 5 years has given me such a temporary feeling. I know it's had an impact on our kids as well. Seven once asked me if I thought we would still live here when he is in 3rd grade. I believe he was only 5 when he asked me that question. It's been so long since we've had a place of our own.
We looked at listings. Some are more ideal than others. Once again, we shall see where it takes us.
We head out of town tomorrow. Have to pack and get organized. Hopefully they will all be healthy and we'll have a great time. Better get myself going. Lots of prep work to be done for the great week ahead!
Saturday, January 21, 2012
Yup, we are homebound
Poor Seven still hangs on with this fever illness. Things looked good this morning. He slept all night long and was in good spirits. Later, around lunch time he was looking peaked again. Happy to report Four was a little ill last night, but seems to be fine. She's asking for medicine every time I give it to Seven.
Seven, he's the best patient a mother could ask for. I feel so bad when any of my children are sick. He hasn't been sick for a very long time. It seemed like when they were little, he was sick most often. Six rarely gets sick.
We've had a day at home, alternating between playing, some computer time, rest and movies. All low key and mild activity. Soup for lunch and now they've requested toast tonight. Six had left over lasagna instead of soup and has kept us all giggling today. He sure can lighten the groups spirits.
Seven, he's the best patient a mother could ask for. I feel so bad when any of my children are sick. He hasn't been sick for a very long time. It seemed like when they were little, he was sick most often. Six rarely gets sick.
We've had a day at home, alternating between playing, some computer time, rest and movies. All low key and mild activity. Soup for lunch and now they've requested toast tonight. Six had left over lasagna instead of soup and has kept us all giggling today. He sure can lighten the groups spirits.
Friday, January 20, 2012
Has illness found it's way to our house?
Last night was not the best at our house. Four woke up cold some time after 2am. I let her come and sleep next to me. She didn't really fall asleep for awhile and was awake on and off until 4:30. What is up with that? I am not sure why she had such a hard time going back to sleep. Anxiety for preschool? I have no clue. Finally, close to 5am I made her take a bath. I warmed her up, put a heater in her room and knocked her out with warmth. She slept until after 8am.
Just when I got her figured out, around 5:20 Seven was coughing. I brought him some water. Went back to my bed, only to hear him get up and use the bathroom. Then I hear voices. Yup. Six and Seven are up. I tell them to go back to sleep, they can't come out until 7. Naturally, I fall into a deep sleep not hearing anything until the 7:15 mark. I get up, both boys are up. N gets up and makes them breakfast. It was quite the morning. We were slightly late for the bake sale. Not really, but we are usually the first ones there on bake sale days, not the last.
It all set me off course. The bake sale was good. Everyone got to pick 4 treats and all seemed happy. I helped out with parent centers during Seven's class after lunch. Poor Seven, I could tell he was a little off. He came to the hallway with me first to work on the lesson. He didn't like the one we started with so we switched. He was still not quite on top of his game. He looked a little pale. Eventually, he came into the hallway crying. Poor boy. I brought both boys home early from school. I just didn't want to take kids back out to get Six, especially when one is ill.
We brought them home. Little sis was still going like the energizer bunny. I was surprised. I thought for sure she'd be exhausted after an extended day of preschool.
Seven took a bath and went to his bed for 30 minutes. After some rest, I let him get up and play. I think he feels better. I know he wasn't 100%. It was reflected in his math test from today. I feel bad he wasn't more well rested. We were in bed on time last night, but rushed to get there. We had play date plans for tonight, but I think it best for us to stay home. It's quite cold, not as cold in MN, but still cold. With the busy week ahead, I really don't want any sick people. If they relax and play tonight, we can all go to bed early. Four is in the tub now and will get her pj's on early. Six will be the last who needs a bath.
Praying once again for no illness among ourselves, friends and family on this chilly January day.
Just when I got her figured out, around 5:20 Seven was coughing. I brought him some water. Went back to my bed, only to hear him get up and use the bathroom. Then I hear voices. Yup. Six and Seven are up. I tell them to go back to sleep, they can't come out until 7. Naturally, I fall into a deep sleep not hearing anything until the 7:15 mark. I get up, both boys are up. N gets up and makes them breakfast. It was quite the morning. We were slightly late for the bake sale. Not really, but we are usually the first ones there on bake sale days, not the last.
It all set me off course. The bake sale was good. Everyone got to pick 4 treats and all seemed happy. I helped out with parent centers during Seven's class after lunch. Poor Seven, I could tell he was a little off. He came to the hallway with me first to work on the lesson. He didn't like the one we started with so we switched. He was still not quite on top of his game. He looked a little pale. Eventually, he came into the hallway crying. Poor boy. I brought both boys home early from school. I just didn't want to take kids back out to get Six, especially when one is ill.
We brought them home. Little sis was still going like the energizer bunny. I was surprised. I thought for sure she'd be exhausted after an extended day of preschool.
Seven took a bath and went to his bed for 30 minutes. After some rest, I let him get up and play. I think he feels better. I know he wasn't 100%. It was reflected in his math test from today. I feel bad he wasn't more well rested. We were in bed on time last night, but rushed to get there. We had play date plans for tonight, but I think it best for us to stay home. It's quite cold, not as cold in MN, but still cold. With the busy week ahead, I really don't want any sick people. If they relax and play tonight, we can all go to bed early. Four is in the tub now and will get her pj's on early. Six will be the last who needs a bath.
Praying once again for no illness among ourselves, friends and family on this chilly January day.
Thursday, January 19, 2012
A prayer for good health
Poor Fr. B had to cancel tonight since he wasn't feeling well. We will reschedule for another time. Kids were disappointed our plans were changed. In the end, Daisy's son stayed for supper and then we went to Zinnia's for awhile. Kids just can't get enough of each other.
Praying for all of us to stay healthy!
Praying for all of us to stay healthy!
Keeping it all straight
Oh how dependent I am on my calender these days! Daisy asked me to pick up her Six after school. I was sure I could do it, but hesitant to say yes fore I knew there were things I had committed to on that day. I almost called N to read the calendar to me. Good thing my memory came to me after a few minutes. The kids are excited for him to come home with us today. He's such a nice boy.
First grade bake sale tomorrow! Kids are so excited. Got some cookies baked this morning and plan to try a new recipe as well. We have the baptismal potluck tonight at Fr. B's. Looking forward to that! I'm bringing cheesy potatoes and chocolate chip cookies. Zinnia said she'd take the group. We will drop them off, along with dinner.
Tomorrow will be full. Luckily, Four will be at lunch bunch and I won't have to worry too much about her. Yesterday, I did keep track of my phone while she was still at preschool. She seems so big, yet sometimes little. She's growing so fast and knows so much. Once again, I am thankful to have her home with me this year.
I get to help in Seven's classroom tomorrow after noon. Haven't helped out in that room besides the Halloween party. Seven is excited. He's such a big boy. He still wants hugs and kisses though, which I am happy to give. He isn't embarrassed even at school yet. I worry about him worrying about things he shouldn't be worried about. He takes on more in his little mind than I realize. He's always aware of my emotions and feelings. I find him thanking me more for the little things these days. It's sweet and good to know he realizes how small things can still be a lot of work for me.
Six is still driving me crazy with wanting help getting dressed. He can do it all himself, but wants the attention I guess. He wants to be as fast as possible and is convinced he needs assistance to get the speed. I told him for every time I help him, he owes me a book. He was pleased with that arrangement. So far, he only owes me one book. He wants to read it to the baby.
We brought the Plateau home yesterday. Everyone wanted to know what we are going to do with it. I told them they could play farm with their tractors and other animals. This was a happy suggestion, but Six wants a desert too. Well, luckily Zinnia's E made a desert. Perhaps they can bring it over when they come to play on Saturday. We have lots of farm vehicles and supplies to go around.
Sunday we will go to church and then the kids and I have to pack. Monday, we're going on a mini getaway. Not far, but to stay in a hotel for a few nights in a MI town we've never been to. N will go to class at the airport. The kids and I will stay at the hotel, swim and do some school work. It should be fun. The teachers have gotten together some material for us they will send home on Friday. I have some ideas of my own as well. We decided to take advantage of the opportunity. Life as we know it will be quite different once April comes. We won't be going on any adventures for spring break this year. There isn't school on Monday. They will all return to class on Friday. Should be a great time. I hope Sunflower or some of the other relatives will be able to stop by and visit us. We'll see.
Not many appointments scheduled for February, yet. They will come soon enough. I will once again, be dependent on my calendar to keep it all straight. Where we are supposed to be and when can be challenging. Off to see the baby doc today! A little nervous as I know another three hour sugar test is in my near future. They are no fun and seem to take all day. Still need to come up with a name for this baby girl. We don't really have any ideas. The middle name I believe is nailed down, but that was easy. Haven't even started to prepare things for her either. Still need to acquire baby supplies. We've gotten rid of almost everything. We have a swing, but it's missing a foot. Have to order another from Fisher Price. Getting the area for her baby items will be my first step. Everything else will come. I did have a nightmare about the Walleye Festival being now instead of in April. You'd think that would reassure me as I could find all the baby stuff I need at that time. Too bad it will be too late. Whatever I will need, I am certain my good friends will go in search of baby items for me if I am unable.
Thursday continues with a positive outlook, happy people and so far, everything running smoothly.
First grade bake sale tomorrow! Kids are so excited. Got some cookies baked this morning and plan to try a new recipe as well. We have the baptismal potluck tonight at Fr. B's. Looking forward to that! I'm bringing cheesy potatoes and chocolate chip cookies. Zinnia said she'd take the group. We will drop them off, along with dinner.
Tomorrow will be full. Luckily, Four will be at lunch bunch and I won't have to worry too much about her. Yesterday, I did keep track of my phone while she was still at preschool. She seems so big, yet sometimes little. She's growing so fast and knows so much. Once again, I am thankful to have her home with me this year.
I get to help in Seven's classroom tomorrow after noon. Haven't helped out in that room besides the Halloween party. Seven is excited. He's such a big boy. He still wants hugs and kisses though, which I am happy to give. He isn't embarrassed even at school yet. I worry about him worrying about things he shouldn't be worried about. He takes on more in his little mind than I realize. He's always aware of my emotions and feelings. I find him thanking me more for the little things these days. It's sweet and good to know he realizes how small things can still be a lot of work for me.
Six is still driving me crazy with wanting help getting dressed. He can do it all himself, but wants the attention I guess. He wants to be as fast as possible and is convinced he needs assistance to get the speed. I told him for every time I help him, he owes me a book. He was pleased with that arrangement. So far, he only owes me one book. He wants to read it to the baby.
We brought the Plateau home yesterday. Everyone wanted to know what we are going to do with it. I told them they could play farm with their tractors and other animals. This was a happy suggestion, but Six wants a desert too. Well, luckily Zinnia's E made a desert. Perhaps they can bring it over when they come to play on Saturday. We have lots of farm vehicles and supplies to go around.
Sunday we will go to church and then the kids and I have to pack. Monday, we're going on a mini getaway. Not far, but to stay in a hotel for a few nights in a MI town we've never been to. N will go to class at the airport. The kids and I will stay at the hotel, swim and do some school work. It should be fun. The teachers have gotten together some material for us they will send home on Friday. I have some ideas of my own as well. We decided to take advantage of the opportunity. Life as we know it will be quite different once April comes. We won't be going on any adventures for spring break this year. There isn't school on Monday. They will all return to class on Friday. Should be a great time. I hope Sunflower or some of the other relatives will be able to stop by and visit us. We'll see.
Not many appointments scheduled for February, yet. They will come soon enough. I will once again, be dependent on my calendar to keep it all straight. Where we are supposed to be and when can be challenging. Off to see the baby doc today! A little nervous as I know another three hour sugar test is in my near future. They are no fun and seem to take all day. Still need to come up with a name for this baby girl. We don't really have any ideas. The middle name I believe is nailed down, but that was easy. Haven't even started to prepare things for her either. Still need to acquire baby supplies. We've gotten rid of almost everything. We have a swing, but it's missing a foot. Have to order another from Fisher Price. Getting the area for her baby items will be my first step. Everything else will come. I did have a nightmare about the Walleye Festival being now instead of in April. You'd think that would reassure me as I could find all the baby stuff I need at that time. Too bad it will be too late. Whatever I will need, I am certain my good friends will go in search of baby items for me if I am unable.
Thursday continues with a positive outlook, happy people and so far, everything running smoothly.
Wednesday, January 18, 2012
Lunch Bunch
Four has a program called lunch bunch at preschool. It's a way for kids to extend their preschool day from being complete at 11:30 to 1:30. We've never done it before. It seemed to me as more money to shell out and they even have to bring their own lunch. It took Four asking me if she could go to see the light and brilliance of the program. Not only does she get to experience lunch time at a table with her peers, but N and I can have more time to get things done without kids in tow.
Today was her first time and she loved it. Friday we will go again and her friends will be there. I think she will love it even more. I hope we can send her 3 times a month. N and I were able to run errands without being rushed. We even managed to have lunch at Chilli's with a gift card we've had for almost a year. It was a nice afternoon that we all enjoyed very much!
Today was her first time and she loved it. Friday we will go again and her friends will be there. I think she will love it even more. I hope we can send her 3 times a month. N and I were able to run errands without being rushed. We even managed to have lunch at Chilli's with a gift card we've had for almost a year. It was a nice afternoon that we all enjoyed very much!
Four years old
What do you think a four year old girl would do in her girl room? She spends full hours in there letting her imagination take flight. She has a doll house shelf she has fashioned into a Barbie house. With furniture acquired during the holidays, it is great entertainment. We came up with some items to work for beds and a couch.
She reads books and sings songs to herself in her girl room. With a mirror given to her by G & G, she fixes her hair in there along with some dollies too.
Recently, I discovered other things she likes to play pretend in her girl room. I found she will take her mattresses off of the bunk beds for her dollies. She covers them with her blankets, both satin, and then adds various items to the top. Flowers, dogs, cats, etc. anything cute and pretty. She creates a center and these are her cakes, just like on Cake Boss. Too cute and like I mentioned before, hours of entertainment.
She reads books and sings songs to herself in her girl room. With a mirror given to her by G & G, she fixes her hair in there along with some dollies too.
Recently, I discovered other things she likes to play pretend in her girl room. I found she will take her mattresses off of the bunk beds for her dollies. She covers them with her blankets, both satin, and then adds various items to the top. Flowers, dogs, cats, etc. anything cute and pretty. She creates a center and these are her cakes, just like on Cake Boss. Too cute and like I mentioned before, hours of entertainment.
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
It's raining snow
Brought lunch to the boys today. They love when we come. I don't like waiting until the end of the week. So many parents go, the tables are crowded. We went last week with McDonald's for a treat. Hate to repeat that habit weekly. A simple solution is mac and cheese and chicken nuggets from home. I usually bring a veggie too, but ran out of time this morning. Boys were happy. Poor Six, sometimes his food is cold. His lunch is after Seven's and the food cools off too fast. My solution today was to pack each lunch separate. I have a hot pack to carry the mac and cheese, but was at a loss with how to bring the nuggets warm. Luckily Zinnia was over for coffee and guided me to a brilliant plan. I put the nuggets into coffee thermos'. Separate for each boy and they stayed nice and hot. You should have seen their faces when I told them that is where their nuggets were. Happy kids, happy mom. Another successful lunch at school.
The weather is not the greatest today. What was rain has turned to snow. I'm sure the roads will be great. I will still pick them up today, as I didn't yesterday. Good thing we live close to the school. Lasagna and apple pie tonight, both Four's ideas. No plans tonight, will be nice to have everyone home and not have to run out in the snow.
The weather is not the greatest today. What was rain has turned to snow. I'm sure the roads will be great. I will still pick them up today, as I didn't yesterday. Good thing we live close to the school. Lasagna and apple pie tonight, both Four's ideas. No plans tonight, will be nice to have everyone home and not have to run out in the snow.
Monday, January 16, 2012
Still trying to get it together
Patience is a virtue.
Some days, I have more patience than others.
Most of the time, I complete my job. Sure, I can be a slacker like anyone else.
Guilt sets in when N doesn't have his favorite pair of jeans clean or Seven can't find any of his favorite socks. Mind you, they do have other clean clothing, just not the ones they prefer.
Today, I felt like I was missing something. I started out with conditioner instead of shampoo in the shower. Lost the key to preschool. Searched for the key to preschool. Never called the PT office to get my appointment started. Never looked up to be sure the PT office is a preferred provider. Started my banana bread and muffins, then realized it was time to go get Four and didn't want to leave the oven on while away. Lost my keys, still do not know where they are. I had them when I brought Four home from preschool. Didn't realize they were gone until time to go to RE at 6.
Other small things frustrated me today as well. I'd reach for something, and forget what it was or go for the wrong thing. Lost my train of thought at RE when teaching the kids.
I became frustrated when we arrived home and it was still a disaster. Now Six isn't listening and they all just need to go to bed. I think I need a day off.
Some days, I have more patience than others.
Most of the time, I complete my job. Sure, I can be a slacker like anyone else.
Guilt sets in when N doesn't have his favorite pair of jeans clean or Seven can't find any of his favorite socks. Mind you, they do have other clean clothing, just not the ones they prefer.
Today, I felt like I was missing something. I started out with conditioner instead of shampoo in the shower. Lost the key to preschool. Searched for the key to preschool. Never called the PT office to get my appointment started. Never looked up to be sure the PT office is a preferred provider. Started my banana bread and muffins, then realized it was time to go get Four and didn't want to leave the oven on while away. Lost my keys, still do not know where they are. I had them when I brought Four home from preschool. Didn't realize they were gone until time to go to RE at 6.
Other small things frustrated me today as well. I'd reach for something, and forget what it was or go for the wrong thing. Lost my train of thought at RE when teaching the kids.
I became frustrated when we arrived home and it was still a disaster. Now Six isn't listening and they all just need to go to bed. I think I need a day off.
What was lost, now is found
I washed the key to preschool along with N's debit card. It all came out thankfully before hitting the dryer. We will see if the key still works.
Four left preschool in tears. Not sure what it was about, but I think I see naps in our future. She's currently in her room awaiting her lunch.
Got some mini banana muffins baked and on a whim, tried out the dinosaur pan. They turned out really great with the banana muffin recipe. I am excited to show the boys and may have Six take them to the bake sale on Friday. Water is boiling, my Monday continues.
Four left preschool in tears. Not sure what it was about, but I think I see naps in our future. She's currently in her room awaiting her lunch.
Got some mini banana muffins baked and on a whim, tried out the dinosaur pan. They turned out really great with the banana muffin recipe. I am excited to show the boys and may have Six take them to the bake sale on Friday. Water is boiling, my Monday continues.
The key to preschool is lost
Mondays are hard enough, get everyone out the door, back into the school routine and try to stay on time. With Six in my bed at 5am from a bad dream, I had my doubts about today from the beginning. He did go back to his bed for 1.5 hrs and we started breakfast on time. N left early leaving me to think it's Tuesday. Just when I think I've got his schedule nailed down, he leaves early and I have no clue.
It's not until we are in the car, driving to preschool that I realize the key is missing. Not really a big deal, but so frustrating. I have no idea where it is. I was wearing the same coat, not in a pocket. Went through my purse, even though I don't bring it into preschool, but not there. The bag I bring with when we run errands, nope.
St. Anthony could really help me out on this one. I remember holding it along with her papers that I placed in her back pack when we picked her up. That's my last thought. We'll see what happens. I think I will get a string to put it on after this, when and if I find it.
Bake sale is Friday. I plan to get something together today. Laundry on the schedule.
I'm loving the chicken in my crockpot idea. I've done it twice this past weekend. Once we mixed the chicken with green peppers, broccoli and rice. The second time I turned it into chicken enchiladas, one of my favorites. It's really nice to eliminate the step of standing at the stove to cook the chicken. Now we are out of chicken and I have to move on to pork. We'll try some pork chops and potatoes tonight. Might get that ready ahead of time too. Nothing makes you feel better than being prepared.
It's not until we are in the car, driving to preschool that I realize the key is missing. Not really a big deal, but so frustrating. I have no idea where it is. I was wearing the same coat, not in a pocket. Went through my purse, even though I don't bring it into preschool, but not there. The bag I bring with when we run errands, nope.
St. Anthony could really help me out on this one. I remember holding it along with her papers that I placed in her back pack when we picked her up. That's my last thought. We'll see what happens. I think I will get a string to put it on after this, when and if I find it.
Bake sale is Friday. I plan to get something together today. Laundry on the schedule.
I'm loving the chicken in my crockpot idea. I've done it twice this past weekend. Once we mixed the chicken with green peppers, broccoli and rice. The second time I turned it into chicken enchiladas, one of my favorites. It's really nice to eliminate the step of standing at the stove to cook the chicken. Now we are out of chicken and I have to move on to pork. We'll try some pork chops and potatoes tonight. Might get that ready ahead of time too. Nothing makes you feel better than being prepared.
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Regular vs. Decaf
Is it lame that I am pleased to have solved our coffee situation? Of course I am on decaf whenever possible. This irritates those who like regular coffee. Not really, but maybe slightly irritates them. We have a coffee craft that we left at Sunflower's house at Thanksgiving. Who knows when we will see them again, but I've missed the craft. Not sure why it took me so long to think of this, but we just happen to have an extra pot to the coffee maker. I labeled one handle with a R and one with a D. This way we both get fresh coffee and can tell which is which. Can't wait to break the news to N! He's in the front yard roaring the snowmobile over and over again. The neighbors will love us. Guess it's payback to the Rockstars next door. They've had us up at 1am more than once. At least it's nearly 10am.
Videos
Here are two videos of our drive through the UP. It's hard to tell, but the waves were moving those big chunks of ice. Strange to see snow and beach together.
Six took some of these pictures and was very proud. The one of him is us crossing the Mackinac bridge.
Traveling in terrible weather
During our recent trip through the UP, I found myself thinking to all the road trips I've made in snow storms. There were many growing up. One stands out in my mind of it being Christmas day and somewhere in the middle of ND. I will never forget the face of a guy who approached our station wagon to ask us to go call for help. This is before cell phones and we drove to a farm house and they called for help. We got back on the road and thankfully continued our journey without incident.
I remember not being worried, my father was worried enough for all of us. It was a serious time, but I do not remember fear. I think I had complete faith in him to get us to our destination safely. He always did, regardless the road conditions.
It is completely different when you are the parent. I believe my blood pressure to be high the entire last two days of our holiday vacation, even with medication.
I never realized the true need for the bumps they put on the middle and side of the road. When you can't see the road, one can depend on those bumps to keep you in your lane. The bumps in the middle are louder when you drive over them. There are more and it is a very pronounced sound. The bumps on the side are softer, but loud enough to be useful.
We received snow these past two days. We haven't had any since the first snow day in November. The kids were thrilled. Last night, they played outside for more than an hour. Such an easy way to entertain themselves, send them outside. There is once again a hill in our back yard. I imagine it will continue to grow as long as more snow comes. We will take what we can get. As much as I was looking forward to just skipping winter and heading right to spring, perhaps that would be too hasty and unfair to these snow loving children of mine. They didn't get enough winter days. I'll just keep making the hot chocolate according to each request.
Another memorable snow storm trip I forgot to mention: my father picked me up from college for Christmas break. A friend from the Netherlands came home with me. Housing closed our hall during break and he had 3-4 days before his flight to remain in the area. The day my dad picked us up, there was a snow storm. Niels had never experienced anything like this. During our drive, he asked my dad if he could get out and take a picture. Oh boy. My dad explained that we had to keep going. Niels had never experienced the smell of skunk either. I took him out to my aunt and uncle's cattle farm and showed him ND. He was fun and I enjoyed showing him around. Too bad we lost touch after he left the area. He did travel more around Europe after being here, but we only communicated a few times later that year. Wonder what ever happened to him.
I remember not being worried, my father was worried enough for all of us. It was a serious time, but I do not remember fear. I think I had complete faith in him to get us to our destination safely. He always did, regardless the road conditions.
It is completely different when you are the parent. I believe my blood pressure to be high the entire last two days of our holiday vacation, even with medication.
I never realized the true need for the bumps they put on the middle and side of the road. When you can't see the road, one can depend on those bumps to keep you in your lane. The bumps in the middle are louder when you drive over them. There are more and it is a very pronounced sound. The bumps on the side are softer, but loud enough to be useful.
We received snow these past two days. We haven't had any since the first snow day in November. The kids were thrilled. Last night, they played outside for more than an hour. Such an easy way to entertain themselves, send them outside. There is once again a hill in our back yard. I imagine it will continue to grow as long as more snow comes. We will take what we can get. As much as I was looking forward to just skipping winter and heading right to spring, perhaps that would be too hasty and unfair to these snow loving children of mine. They didn't get enough winter days. I'll just keep making the hot chocolate according to each request.
Another memorable snow storm trip I forgot to mention: my father picked me up from college for Christmas break. A friend from the Netherlands came home with me. Housing closed our hall during break and he had 3-4 days before his flight to remain in the area. The day my dad picked us up, there was a snow storm. Niels had never experienced anything like this. During our drive, he asked my dad if he could get out and take a picture. Oh boy. My dad explained that we had to keep going. Niels had never experienced the smell of skunk either. I took him out to my aunt and uncle's cattle farm and showed him ND. He was fun and I enjoyed showing him around. Too bad we lost touch after he left the area. He did travel more around Europe after being here, but we only communicated a few times later that year. Wonder what ever happened to him.
Morning routine
If they are up early in the morning, dressed, fed, teeth brushed, face washed and back pack ready, I let them play on the computer. Recently, Six expressed how unfair it was that I could sit at the computer in my pajamas and he can't. "Why do you get to wear your pj's at the computer?" Poor boy. I had to laugh. He really didn't get my point and at first, I didn't get his. N later told me about this and if you know Six, it is a little comical.
Friday, January 13, 2012
Braxton Hicks on a Friday night?
It's been awhile, but I think I had some contractions tonight. Made me a little nervous as they say I'm only 26 weeks. I've never been this nervous during a pregnancy. Not sure what has changed. Could it be losing a pregnancy that places doubt in your mind? Was it ignorance or just being naive to think it wouldn't happen before? The Lord only knows. I just have to keep praying and let him bring out his plan for us in this life.
Today was rather busy. I felt great for most of it,just a little worried at the end.
Four woke up crying early this morning. She had a temp from her shots. Her legs were sore. I gave her some meds and we tried to go back to sleep. After a questionable 30 minutes, I heard the boys and got up. They were so excited to see snow on the ground. They couldn't wait to get out and play.
Four woke up close to 8am and was still sore. I told her she didn't have to go to preschool, but she was determined. We got her out the door, but I still had my doubts. She complained and whined the entire drive. There was a car almost vertical in the ditch on our way. We took our time and arrived 15 minutes later than usual. She was fine and normal by the time I dropped her off. She gave me a kiss and was on her merry way. She had things to do, friends to see and something new at the exploratory table.
N and I had breakfast, found a few treasures and picked her up. Later that afternoon, I was able to go help at parent centers. We did a snowman activity that involved writing and chalk. It took an hour, I stood the entire hour. My hips were sore after and I seemed exhausted.
The evening was great, full of happy people. Best Friday night! They were to bed later than they should have been, but oh well. Could be worse. N has tomorrow off. Looking forward to spending the day having fun.
Today was rather busy. I felt great for most of it,just a little worried at the end.
Four woke up crying early this morning. She had a temp from her shots. Her legs were sore. I gave her some meds and we tried to go back to sleep. After a questionable 30 minutes, I heard the boys and got up. They were so excited to see snow on the ground. They couldn't wait to get out and play.
Four woke up close to 8am and was still sore. I told her she didn't have to go to preschool, but she was determined. We got her out the door, but I still had my doubts. She complained and whined the entire drive. There was a car almost vertical in the ditch on our way. We took our time and arrived 15 minutes later than usual. She was fine and normal by the time I dropped her off. She gave me a kiss and was on her merry way. She had things to do, friends to see and something new at the exploratory table.
N and I had breakfast, found a few treasures and picked her up. Later that afternoon, I was able to go help at parent centers. We did a snowman activity that involved writing and chalk. It took an hour, I stood the entire hour. My hips were sore after and I seemed exhausted.
The evening was great, full of happy people. Best Friday night! They were to bed later than they should have been, but oh well. Could be worse. N has tomorrow off. Looking forward to spending the day having fun.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
Thursdays with Four
I am treasuring each day I spend at home with Four. She has grown so much and makes me smile throughout the day. Today I was able to rest and she entertained herself in her girl room. When I popped in to say we should have lunch, she held my hand down the steps. She loves to make her own sandwich. When I asked what we should have, of course she said sandwiches. She loves sandwiches. She's the best eater I have. We had apples, oranges and pineapple too. It was lovely.
This afternoon, I take her for a well child visit. I fear shots are in her future, but can not be certain. We will see how that experience goes. It's been awhile since she's been to the Dr. Last fall the flu shot didn't go very well. Hopefully this will be different.
This afternoon, I take her for a well child visit. I fear shots are in her future, but can not be certain. We will see how that experience goes. It's been awhile since she's been to the Dr. Last fall the flu shot didn't go very well. Hopefully this will be different.
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
A Wednesday of prayer, appointments and a little fun
My day started out with prayer. What better way to start your day? The two family members who had surgery today are doing well. In pain, but very well. Both turned out to be better than expected. On one hand, the surgery was hours less than expected. The other, results we can live with. So much to be thankful for. Tonight when we prayed as a family, the kids each took turns praying specifically for these family members. Then the questions came. How to simplify surgeries to kids? I think we did alright. They seemed content with our answers, right up until Six asked if the baby was coming out of my belly button. Time for bed!
I was tired this morning. Last night, I felt on the verge of a migraine. I am thankful for Tylenol and Phennegren. The combination of these two help me eliminate the migraine during pregnancy and are safe medications. My other option is Vicodin, not totally safe and can be habit forming. So far no worries of that here. It is rare for me to take.
N took Four to preschool. This gave me the ability to take my time this morning, clean up the kitchen, take a shower, no rushing through activities. We went to pick Four up from preschool feeling refreshed and great. She had a lunch date with her classmates at McDonald's today. Not my favorite food choice, but the girls wanted to have lunch and it was a moms suggestion. We followed and had a great time. N drove us and came too. He was the only dad and did run an errand for ham from the meat market across the street during that time. When lunch and visiting were over, it was off to the dentist for me. I never used to mind the dentist, but the last few years it's a task I'd rather skip. N, being as great as he is, took Four to the grocery store and did all the shopping for us this week. This only made sense if we all went together. He isn't a big fan of waiting rooms and quickly agreed to get things done. I hate driving to things by myself. I think it's just the way I feel during the pregnancy. In truth, I'd rather not drive at all. I don't mind picking the kids up from school, but MI drivers are so aggressive and fast. The passenger seat is the place for me.
We were home in time to unload the groceries and I picked the boys up from school. Four has been in love with Barbies since our return form holiday break. She got new Barbies, pets and furniture. She's turned the doll house shelf we got for her into a dream Barbie house. She played in her room all afternoon.
The weather was so nice today, we decided we better get out and enjoy it. The boys grabbed balls, gloves and bats, we headed out to the park. We played baseball as a family and had a blast. It was near dark, I gathered the belongings while they hit the playground with N.
We loaded up and headed to Pizza Hut to use Six's Book it coupon. It expires this week. Tonight was a great night to venture out for pizza. When we got there, she seated us next to a TV with cartoons. My kids sat their and didn't move but to chew. This was the quietest they have been during meal time all week. Eventually they took their eyes off the TV and we had a nice time. When the bill came, N told them they each owed him $7 for their meal. Can't get anything past Six, he said "Not me, mine was free!" Right he was, but he did owe his dad $1 for his chocolate milk. We all laughed and headed on our way. They were able to have an hour of play when we got home. This pleased them very much. It turned into more than an hour when I made a couple phone calls during that time. Bedtime was then at 9, much later than I planned for. Hopefully we don't suffer tomorrow. Seven will be fine. Four can sleep in with no preschool. It's Six that is the wild card. We'll see how we do.
I was tired this morning. Last night, I felt on the verge of a migraine. I am thankful for Tylenol and Phennegren. The combination of these two help me eliminate the migraine during pregnancy and are safe medications. My other option is Vicodin, not totally safe and can be habit forming. So far no worries of that here. It is rare for me to take.
N took Four to preschool. This gave me the ability to take my time this morning, clean up the kitchen, take a shower, no rushing through activities. We went to pick Four up from preschool feeling refreshed and great. She had a lunch date with her classmates at McDonald's today. Not my favorite food choice, but the girls wanted to have lunch and it was a moms suggestion. We followed and had a great time. N drove us and came too. He was the only dad and did run an errand for ham from the meat market across the street during that time. When lunch and visiting were over, it was off to the dentist for me. I never used to mind the dentist, but the last few years it's a task I'd rather skip. N, being as great as he is, took Four to the grocery store and did all the shopping for us this week. This only made sense if we all went together. He isn't a big fan of waiting rooms and quickly agreed to get things done. I hate driving to things by myself. I think it's just the way I feel during the pregnancy. In truth, I'd rather not drive at all. I don't mind picking the kids up from school, but MI drivers are so aggressive and fast. The passenger seat is the place for me.
We were home in time to unload the groceries and I picked the boys up from school. Four has been in love with Barbies since our return form holiday break. She got new Barbies, pets and furniture. She's turned the doll house shelf we got for her into a dream Barbie house. She played in her room all afternoon.
The weather was so nice today, we decided we better get out and enjoy it. The boys grabbed balls, gloves and bats, we headed out to the park. We played baseball as a family and had a blast. It was near dark, I gathered the belongings while they hit the playground with N.
We loaded up and headed to Pizza Hut to use Six's Book it coupon. It expires this week. Tonight was a great night to venture out for pizza. When we got there, she seated us next to a TV with cartoons. My kids sat their and didn't move but to chew. This was the quietest they have been during meal time all week. Eventually they took their eyes off the TV and we had a nice time. When the bill came, N told them they each owed him $7 for their meal. Can't get anything past Six, he said "Not me, mine was free!" Right he was, but he did owe his dad $1 for his chocolate milk. We all laughed and headed on our way. They were able to have an hour of play when we got home. This pleased them very much. It turned into more than an hour when I made a couple phone calls during that time. Bedtime was then at 9, much later than I planned for. Hopefully we don't suffer tomorrow. Seven will be fine. Four can sleep in with no preschool. It's Six that is the wild card. We'll see how we do.
Tuesday, January 10, 2012
Tuesday nights
Laundry done and PTO tonight. N made dinner and took them for a walk. What a guy.
When talking to my Mum, I remembered more about our time at RE last night. Six shared with his class that the best thing about his Christmas break was being with "the best cousin in the world." He then shared that she is 5 months old and he made her squeal. A girl asked what that was. He demonstrated with an example. Everyone giggled.
Tomorrow is a big day for our family. Two members will be having major surgery. Please keep them in your prayers. They are uncertain the causes of their ailments and pray for results tomorrow. It's frustrating not being able to be there with them. God brought us here for a reason, still trying to figure out what it is. Times like this when I am more frustrated. Praying for answers will be the theme tomorrow.
When talking to my Mum, I remembered more about our time at RE last night. Six shared with his class that the best thing about his Christmas break was being with "the best cousin in the world." He then shared that she is 5 months old and he made her squeal. A girl asked what that was. He demonstrated with an example. Everyone giggled.
Tomorrow is a big day for our family. Two members will be having major surgery. Please keep them in your prayers. They are uncertain the causes of their ailments and pray for results tomorrow. It's frustrating not being able to be there with them. God brought us here for a reason, still trying to figure out what it is. Times like this when I am more frustrated. Praying for answers will be the theme tomorrow.
Tuesdays, getting it together
We were pretty on top of things yesterday. Six has been slightly unruly and woke up with a smile yesterday morning. That smile gave me hope for a good day, he didn't even know it.
Four was to preschool on time and I got a few things accomplished with Zinnia. Today, same story, but Four and I have been home all morning. We started laundry, changed sheets on beds and baked some cookies. All were not possible without Zinnia willing to climb on the loft and change sheets for me. She and Four make a good team.
The laundry is nearly done, on to the next tasks. We need to mail out some cards. I've had thank you notes sitting here, written and addressed, but no stamps.
Last night at RE we discussed giving compliments and how they make people feel. We had extra time at the end of class and had them make a card for someone to give a compliment to. All the students chose to write their card to Fr. B. He was thrilled and said they would be his night reading. Six wrote "I like your jokes." and "I like the chicken you bring to the potluck." AMEN! Spirits were high and people were happy last night. It was a great place to be. Spirits were a little too high with the boys. They couldn't turn the silliness off. We read four stories and they were in bed by 8:30. In bed, but not asleep. Those little jokers were still awake after 9:30. Forever nervous of their behavior the next morning, I dreaded the attitudes we would wake up to. Turns out, no attitudes from anyone. I think they thrive from the routine and it took us an entire week to get back to normal around here. Hope the good spirits continue the rest of the week and we spend quality time together.
Four was to preschool on time and I got a few things accomplished with Zinnia. Today, same story, but Four and I have been home all morning. We started laundry, changed sheets on beds and baked some cookies. All were not possible without Zinnia willing to climb on the loft and change sheets for me. She and Four make a good team.
The laundry is nearly done, on to the next tasks. We need to mail out some cards. I've had thank you notes sitting here, written and addressed, but no stamps.
Last night at RE we discussed giving compliments and how they make people feel. We had extra time at the end of class and had them make a card for someone to give a compliment to. All the students chose to write their card to Fr. B. He was thrilled and said they would be his night reading. Six wrote "I like your jokes." and "I like the chicken you bring to the potluck." AMEN! Spirits were high and people were happy last night. It was a great place to be. Spirits were a little too high with the boys. They couldn't turn the silliness off. We read four stories and they were in bed by 8:30. In bed, but not asleep. Those little jokers were still awake after 9:30. Forever nervous of their behavior the next morning, I dreaded the attitudes we would wake up to. Turns out, no attitudes from anyone. I think they thrive from the routine and it took us an entire week to get back to normal around here. Hope the good spirits continue the rest of the week and we spend quality time together.
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Similar, yet so far away
After reading Bluebonnet's blog today, I was struck to see how many things we still have in common. She wrote about things she wants to improve/change in the next year. I am in the same boat with a number of items she listed.
She plans to drink a bottle of water before her cup of coffee. This is something I should be doing. I know I don't drink enough water, reason enough why I've had a bladder infection since before the holidays. I get on a role and drink plenty for a few days, but one morning I wake up and don't drink anything until lunch time.
She also plans to read more with her children. We used to read two books per kid every night. I don't know how we got out of this habit, but it never seemed to really pick up with our move to MI.
This was a draft. Happy to report both of these items on my new list have improved. Granted, it's only been two days, but better than nothing. I'll take what I can get.
She plans to drink a bottle of water before her cup of coffee. This is something I should be doing. I know I don't drink enough water, reason enough why I've had a bladder infection since before the holidays. I get on a role and drink plenty for a few days, but one morning I wake up and don't drink anything until lunch time.
She also plans to read more with her children. We used to read two books per kid every night. I don't know how we got out of this habit, but it never seemed to really pick up with our move to MI.
This was a draft. Happy to report both of these items on my new list have improved. Granted, it's only been two days, but better than nothing. I'll take what I can get.
Big day, can I keep up?
Four has a program at preschool this am. We are to be there by 9. I hope it doesn't go too long, we need to get back to town for mass by 10:30. I had planned to go last night, but discovered it is the children's mass today. I don't want the kids to miss out on seeing it. Even if we are a few minutes late, it's better than not going at all.
By the time all this is over, it will be noon. Luckily, we have a break from then until 4. Birthday party at the gymnastics center in the evening. N will be home from work by then. I've been awake since 4am. I did get to go back to sleep a little, but not much. Hope I don't get too tired too soon.
By the time all this is over, it will be noon. Luckily, we have a break from then until 4. Birthday party at the gymnastics center in the evening. N will be home from work by then. I've been awake since 4am. I did get to go back to sleep a little, but not much. Hope I don't get too tired too soon.
Saturday, January 7, 2012
Whining? Watch out, I'll put you to work!
Saturday mornings growing up I have memories of watching cartoons and staying in our pj's longer than normal. I want that for my kids, I don't mind if they stay in their pj's longer on Saturday mornings. It's the only day we have like that, it's what the day should be for, relaxing. N made brunch and all I heard was whining. We had to change our afternoon plans due to church. Four is singing at preschool tomorrow morning. We have to be there by 9 am. There won't be time to get back to town for mass. Instead of skipping, I wanted to go tonight at 4:30. That meant holding our play date off until after mass. I really didn't want to miss. We haven't been in town for so long, this is our first weekend back. When I reported the change in plans to the group, whine, whine, whine. My entire schedule is based around them and their needs. It is not fair for me to listen to such whining. I was fed up and put them to work. After breakfast, Four and Six cleared the table. Seven went outside and cleaned up a few things on the front porch. I gave everyone a Clorox wipe and a trash can. They picked all the junk out of the car and truck, wiped it down and took turns using the shop vac to clean it out. Success! N took them for a walk to the auto parts store and our day was looking up. When they came inside, I had them clean out the hall closet. It is full of their things, hats, mittens, boots, coats, sweatshirts, etc. Everyone has a shelf, everyone has a place for their things. Throughout the week, it turns to chaos. They are good workers. It all took about an hour or so. They were off to play.
During our trip, we had a great chef salad from Perkins in the UP. I've been thinking of that salad for awhile. I made one for N to take to work and myself. I'll feed them in a little while, closer to church time.
After mass we will head to Ivy's for lasagna dinner. I made a salad for that and plan to pick up some garlic bread. We will have a great day! I am determined.
During our trip, we had a great chef salad from Perkins in the UP. I've been thinking of that salad for awhile. I made one for N to take to work and myself. I'll feed them in a little while, closer to church time.
After mass we will head to Ivy's for lasagna dinner. I made a salad for that and plan to pick up some garlic bread. We will have a great day! I am determined.
Friday, January 6, 2012
Deals today, I'm on a roll
I had Famous Footwear coupons burning a hole in my pocket. They were good only after the first of the year. We went looking for Four, but had no luck. Instead, N and I got each a new pair of tennis shoes for $56! I was so excited for our good luck. Mine normally cost $109. I've never paid that much, but have spent anywhere from $70-100 on them.
Later I found a pair for Four at Target for $8. I plan to get her a good pair of tennis shoes with my next coupon. I thought I was even more on top of things when the pharmacy called and didn't have my prescription, they couldn't get it until Monday. The plan was to call it in at a different store, one I had a coupon for a $10 prescription transfer! My joy was short lived as I received another phone call saying the grocery store didn't have the item either. To Target we went.
I picked up the kids, but brought home slightly crabby boys. I thought we'd hit the grocery store for a treat tonight, but after too much hassle leaving the playground, we came straight home. Oh well. It will be nice to just be home tonight. No big plans for the morning. Play date in the afternoon and a lasagna supper with friends. Ivy's boys are excited for us to come over. We haven't been able to play with them since October, or maybe it was even September. Good times. Nice weekend, hope the weather stays so nice. I'm ready to be done with winter.
Later I found a pair for Four at Target for $8. I plan to get her a good pair of tennis shoes with my next coupon. I thought I was even more on top of things when the pharmacy called and didn't have my prescription, they couldn't get it until Monday. The plan was to call it in at a different store, one I had a coupon for a $10 prescription transfer! My joy was short lived as I received another phone call saying the grocery store didn't have the item either. To Target we went.
I picked up the kids, but brought home slightly crabby boys. I thought we'd hit the grocery store for a treat tonight, but after too much hassle leaving the playground, we came straight home. Oh well. It will be nice to just be home tonight. No big plans for the morning. Play date in the afternoon and a lasagna supper with friends. Ivy's boys are excited for us to come over. We haven't been able to play with them since October, or maybe it was even September. Good times. Nice weekend, hope the weather stays so nice. I'm ready to be done with winter.
Plateau project done!
We turned in Seven's land form project this morning. Boy, did those kids do a great job on their land forms! Some were really amazing. Seven was proud.
Much to look forward to this weekend. Hopefully finish getting my house in order today. We have a play date tomorrow when N is at work. Church on Sunday and a birthday party at the gymnastics place in the afternoon. Should be a nice weekend.
It's so nice outside, hard to believe it could switch to winter any day. Feels like spring is right around the corner. I'll add a plateau picture soon!
Much to look forward to this weekend. Hopefully finish getting my house in order today. We have a play date tomorrow when N is at work. Church on Sunday and a birthday party at the gymnastics place in the afternoon. Should be a nice weekend.
It's so nice outside, hard to believe it could switch to winter any day. Feels like spring is right around the corner. I'll add a plateau picture soon!
Thursday, January 5, 2012
Too many miles in between
When things are going well, it's easy to get caught into your own life and focus on the things in front of you. When things take a turn for the worse, it all comes into perspective quickly.
It's then that I am once again, frustrated with all the miles in between me and my family. It seems unfair and I feel helpless. It is especially difficult with the most recent trip just being this past week. Bad weather, bad roads and stressful situations. Not to mention the cost of it all being in the back of your mind. Gas, lodging and food, they all add up.
I am not at liberty to specify what the situation is that is bothering me, just know it needs prayer from anyone who has a prayer to offer. Breaks my heart to be stuck here and not there supporting my family.
It's then that I am once again, frustrated with all the miles in between me and my family. It seems unfair and I feel helpless. It is especially difficult with the most recent trip just being this past week. Bad weather, bad roads and stressful situations. Not to mention the cost of it all being in the back of your mind. Gas, lodging and food, they all add up.
I am not at liberty to specify what the situation is that is bothering me, just know it needs prayer from anyone who has a prayer to offer. Breaks my heart to be stuck here and not there supporting my family.
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Back to normal? I hope so.
This morning was a little rough. Boys not awake by 7:45am. They are usually up before me and we have very little issues. Too many late nights on vacation have thrown us WAY off our schedule. Everyone made it out the door in time, fed, clean and with all the proper equipment necessary for the day. We took Four to preschool then headed to Wally world for a few things. Not sure what happened to me, but I nearly passed out in the dairy section. I have no idea what it was, besides maybe not enough water that morning. I ate breakfast and had some juice, but no water. I found myself feeling dizzy. It was a strange feeling, not normal. N brought me a little bottle of OJ since it was close. I sat for a few minutes and felt better. We headed home right after that. I wish I could say I took it easy the rest of the day, but after the 20 minute car ride, I was much better. There was so much laundry all over and the living room a disaster from our unpacking of the truck, I worked on the house the rest of the afternoon.
Four came home from preschool as happy as could be. We all went to pick up the boys, washed the car, stopped at the bank, and picked up our missing ingredients for tacos. A nice meal together! Seven has a land form project due on Friday. We did not get to work on it before our trip and forgot about it last night. Thankfully, tonight we remembered and got it started. Seven and I created the platform and base. We used card board and the box our Christmas letter came in from Staples. We also used a wrapping paper roll, cut into smaller pieces. With balled up newspaper to fill the tops of the rolls and egg cartons, the formation looks like a plateau (I hope). N and Seven spray painted the top green and the rest a rust color. Seven and I then made trees out of cinnamon sticks and green ribbon. I didn't want to be the one doing all of this, after all, it is his project. I showed him how to cut the ribbon and wrap the pipe cleaners around the ribbon. He did pretty well. I showed him how to wrap them around the cinnamon sticks too. We can glue it all on tomorrow once the paint has dried. I think it turned out pretty great. I will post a picture once we have the finished product.
Kids are still awake, two in their beds. Six was just in here saying he "had a bad dream." He had just been put to bed. Then he tells me he "had a bad day dream." Oh boy. The excuses they come up with. Hope we are closer to normal tomorrow.
Four came home from preschool as happy as could be. We all went to pick up the boys, washed the car, stopped at the bank, and picked up our missing ingredients for tacos. A nice meal together! Seven has a land form project due on Friday. We did not get to work on it before our trip and forgot about it last night. Thankfully, tonight we remembered and got it started. Seven and I created the platform and base. We used card board and the box our Christmas letter came in from Staples. We also used a wrapping paper roll, cut into smaller pieces. With balled up newspaper to fill the tops of the rolls and egg cartons, the formation looks like a plateau (I hope). N and Seven spray painted the top green and the rest a rust color. Seven and I then made trees out of cinnamon sticks and green ribbon. I didn't want to be the one doing all of this, after all, it is his project. I showed him how to cut the ribbon and wrap the pipe cleaners around the ribbon. He did pretty well. I showed him how to wrap them around the cinnamon sticks too. We can glue it all on tomorrow once the paint has dried. I think it turned out pretty great. I will post a picture once we have the finished product.
Kids are still awake, two in their beds. Six was just in here saying he "had a bad dream." He had just been put to bed. Then he tells me he "had a bad day dream." Oh boy. The excuses they come up with. Hope we are closer to normal tomorrow.
Tuesday, January 3, 2012
Favorite quote from our journey
In the Duluth McDonald's parking lot "Dude, that's are really old snowmobile." Thanks to that teen who stopped to comment on our new addition. Gave us a chuckle after the first leg of our journey.
Monday, January 2, 2012
Oh what fun it is to ride 16 hours in our truck
This was probably the most trying trip to date. We ventured out on New Years morning, all eager to get to the pool at the hotel. By the time we were to Bemidji (only 2 hrs away), we were guessing numbers and colors the other was thinking of. It was going to be a long ride. Duluth McDonald's had a play area, bonus! It also came with a dad and teenagers using the F word freely the first 5 minutes I sat down.
The roads weren't too bad, but we did drive pretty slow to Duluth. Over the bridge and into Wisconsin we go! Thanks go Grandpa J, kids watched many, many episodes of Top Cat, a cartoon from the 80's. Six showed the most interest, but Four didn't want to turn it off later in the day. We arrived to our hotel around the 8 o'clock hour. Roads were bad, worse than earlier. Visibility not good and lots of snow. We were happy to arrive and hopeful for better weather the next day.
Kids loved the pool and N ran to get us some Perkins! It was a nice night, but the kids were up until 11pm. They never stay up that late, not even during the summer.
We all slept until 8 and had breakfast downstairs. N took them swimming, I organized our stuff and we left by 9:30 am. We weren't really in a hurry because of the weather. We hoped it would clear up. We thought the visibility was bad the night before, it was far worse. We traveled 10 hours at 45 miles an hour for most of the day. In Musining, we played bumper cars with an older man and his truck. We were turning right on a round about and the ice took us right into the back of his truck. We were lucky, our only damage was our headlight. No one was hurt. We were barely moving when we turned. We traveled the rest of the way with one headlight.
Our journey continued with a slow pace. There was much relief when we made it to the bridge. Things were better the last 3 hours, some snow and low visibility, but much improved from earlier. What a day. It was great to finally arrive home. No snow here, just what's stuck to the back of our truck. It's like Christmas all over again for the kids, unpacking their new gifts. School tomorrow, but I think they'll go in late. Six took a nap at 5 o'clock. Really don't see an early bedtime happening, especially since it's already past their bedtime.
The roads weren't too bad, but we did drive pretty slow to Duluth. Over the bridge and into Wisconsin we go! Thanks go Grandpa J, kids watched many, many episodes of Top Cat, a cartoon from the 80's. Six showed the most interest, but Four didn't want to turn it off later in the day. We arrived to our hotel around the 8 o'clock hour. Roads were bad, worse than earlier. Visibility not good and lots of snow. We were happy to arrive and hopeful for better weather the next day.
Kids loved the pool and N ran to get us some Perkins! It was a nice night, but the kids were up until 11pm. They never stay up that late, not even during the summer.
We all slept until 8 and had breakfast downstairs. N took them swimming, I organized our stuff and we left by 9:30 am. We weren't really in a hurry because of the weather. We hoped it would clear up. We thought the visibility was bad the night before, it was far worse. We traveled 10 hours at 45 miles an hour for most of the day. In Musining, we played bumper cars with an older man and his truck. We were turning right on a round about and the ice took us right into the back of his truck. We were lucky, our only damage was our headlight. No one was hurt. We were barely moving when we turned. We traveled the rest of the way with one headlight.
Our journey continued with a slow pace. There was much relief when we made it to the bridge. Things were better the last 3 hours, some snow and low visibility, but much improved from earlier. What a day. It was great to finally arrive home. No snow here, just what's stuck to the back of our truck. It's like Christmas all over again for the kids, unpacking their new gifts. School tomorrow, but I think they'll go in late. Six took a nap at 5 o'clock. Really don't see an early bedtime happening, especially since it's already past their bedtime.
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